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Long distance relationship Advice

Hello everyone!
I recently began a long distance relationship with someone. We get on extremely well and we feel a great connection, and it is already something very special. I was just wondering if anyone has any advice for me about how to keep the magic alive from this distance, and ensure we don’t drift apart. We have a year until we can finally start meeting frequently. Thank you! She really matters to me, so any advice you think of would be greatly appreciated.

Reply 1

Original post by Anonymous
Hello everyone!
I recently began a long distance relationship with someone. We get on extremely well and we feel a great connection, and it is already something very special. I was just wondering if anyone has any advice for me about how to keep the magic alive from this distance, and ensure we don’t drift apart. We have a year until we can finally start meeting frequently. Thank you! She really matters to me, so any advice you think of would be greatly appreciated.

im in a long distance relationship and would recommend;
1) silly online games to feel like youre doing the same thing -we love battleships!
2) any serious convos or fights should be done on facetime -not text!
3) make sure to communicate your communication preferences ie. blocking out time to talk
4) send letters too! or postcards!
obviously youre your own couple but this is what we do :smile:

Reply 2

Original post by anonomouse888
im in a long distance relationship and would recommend;
1) silly online games to feel like youre doing the same thing -we love battleships!
2) any serious convos or fights should be done on facetime -not text!
3) make sure to communicate your communication preferences ie. blocking out time to talk
4) send letters too! or postcards!
obviously youre your own couple but this is what we do :smile:

Thank you so much! Letters are a really fantastic idea!! I love that! Silly online games are cool too! In video calls we like to do blind tests for metal songs hihi. We do actually have a lot of deep but also very playful conversations by text, it is how we met so I think we have always gotten used to it, but I am trying to save deeper chats for video calls. How long have you been in this relationship? 😁 Do you think there is anything else I should be aware of just with the flow of things? We are both 17 by the way.

Reply 3

Original post by Anonymous
Thank you so much! Letters are a really fantastic idea!! I love that! Silly online games are cool too! In video calls we like to do blind tests for metal songs hihi. We do actually have a lot of deep but also very playful conversations by text, it is how we met so I think we have always gotten used to it, but I am trying to save deeper chats for video calls. How long have you been in this relationship? 😁 Do you think there is anything else I should be aware of just with the flow of things? We are both 17 by the way.

omg the metal songs are so cute! me and my gf have a very different music taste tho lol! im also 17 and she's 18 and weve been together for about 8 months, only thing I'd add is probably try to meet in person before too long otherwise it might be a bit awkward.

Reply 4

Original post by anonomouse888
omg the metal songs are so cute! me and my gf have a very different music taste tho lol! im also 17 and she's 18 and weve been together for about 8 months, only thing I'd add is probably try to meet in person before too long otherwise it might be a bit awkward.

Yeahhh we love literally the same exact songs and bands except she is teaching me more about black metal, which I am really loving 🥰. We have a spotify list together we started the first week we met and we like to listen to it together on jams hihi. Wow 8 months is amazing, I am happy for you! We discussed the distance and we know that we would only be able to meet in person for the first time in a year 😭😭, but we have lots of fun now so I think we are doing very well so far, I am more just worried about maintaining our connection as we get to where you guys are you know? But I feel like we really can to be honest.

Reply 5

Original post by Anonymous
Yeahhh we love literally the same exact songs and bands except she is teaching me more about black metal, which I am really loving 🥰. We have a spotify list together we started the first week we met and we like to listen to it together on jams hihi. Wow 8 months is amazing, I am happy for you! We discussed the distance and we know that we would only be able to meet in person for the first time in a year 😭😭, but we have lots of fun now so I think we are doing very well so far, I am more just worried about maintaining our connection as we get to where you guys are you know? But I feel like we really can to be honest.

honestly im sure you'll be grand, you really care about this relationship already!

Reply 6

Original post by anonomouse888
honestly im sure you'll be grand, you really care about this relationship already!

Thank you so much! I think it will be really fantastic.

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