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Just a girl having a lgbt+ Crisis

Hello

I thought I finally figured my sexuality out as lesbian but then once again I have a constant crisis with lesbian and Bi. Like do I have to pick one or the other or can it be both with a preference of liking girls more?

Please help I genuinely hate labels but at the same time I want an answer!


It’s genuinely affecting me mentally.

Reply 1

Original post by Anonymous
Hello
I thought I finally figured my sexuality out as lesbian but then once again I have a constant crisis with lesbian and Bi. Like do I have to pick one or the other or can it be both with a preference of liking girls more?
Please help I genuinely hate labels but at the same time I want an answer!
It’s genuinely affecting me mentally.

don't stress too much about labels, there's really no rush to label yourself now or ever really if you don't want to , just see how things go. If you thought you were a lesbian but turns out you like guys then maybe you were wrong and that's fine, understanding your sexuality can take a while.

Reply 2

Original post by Anonymous
Hello
I thought I finally figured my sexuality out as lesbian but then once again I have a constant crisis with lesbian and Bi. Like do I have to pick one or the other or can it be both with a preference of liking girls more?
Please help I genuinely hate labels but at the same time I want an answer!
It’s genuinely affecting me mentally.
Honestly **** labels they're so confusing. But also being bi can mean having a preference in gender, it doesn't mean you have to like all equally. Personally I identify as pansexual which is liking people regardless of their gender (so without a kind of preference). If you think you like guys as well but like girls more then I think most people would say that's bi with a preference for girls

Reply 3

As above, some things are simply nothing more than a label. You'll notice we keep having to add new labels as peoples make new choices.

Reply 4

just go with how you feel about anyone at the time. thats far more important than a label. stressing over what you are makes it like a competition against yourself that you cant ever win.

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