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relationship advice

so this is really random but I am really insecure about my voice like it really sounds like a girl and idk like my face is just really ugly like I want to try and make myself more appealing because I do really want a relationship but I live in Newry in Northern Ireland any suggestions regarding how I can make myself more appealing and any suggestions regarding dating apps that has people from Northern Ireland because I've tried a couple of dating apps but they all cost money and its people from all over the world not Northern Ireland by the way I am straight for those thinking I wasn't. sorry again. this is awkward.

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Most dating apps have parameters to select the distance of people it will show you on your explore page (it doesn't mean that the app won't show you to people that are further away). Unfortunately, dating apps are a money making scheme so even though there are apps that will let you send out likes (a limited number per day, usually) and chat with your matches for free, they keep everything else behind a paywall. You should still be able to use an app like Tinder or Hinge without needing to pay.

As for your insecurities about your voice and your appearance, I suppose you just need to learn to be comfortable in your own skin. Remember that the way you see yourself is not how others will see you.

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