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Even though I want to do good, I never seem to be able to. I can’t get myself to study. How do you guys do it?

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by Anonymous
Even though I want to do good, I never seem to be able to. I can’t get myself to study. How do you guys do it?

The only way I can study is going to quiet spaces library & using the app flora but with the settings of no pausing allowed and no using any other apps whilst flora is on. You can also put money pledges on the trees so if you try to kill the tree you have to sacrifice a minimum fee of £5. “Study with me” videos on YouTube are also helpful and before I start a study session, I have a Pinterest board for motivation to study that I look at.
Original post
by Anonymous
Even though I want to do good, I never seem to be able to. I can’t get myself to study. How do you guys do it?

Hi there,

It can be so difficult to find motivation to study sometimes! It sounds like you have good intentions at wanting to succeed which is already such a good start. Don't be too hard on yourself and take each day as it comes. Some days you might be more motivated to study than other days but don't pressure yourself too much.

One thing that really helps me is to break down the topics into manageable chunks to study. When I say I want to revise a whole subject, that can be too overwhelming and make it feel impossible to start studying. Take the time to break down the topics and write a list of everything you need to study. Then, display the list somewhere where you will see it often and tick off the topics as you study them. I've found that helps me stay on top of it and makes me want to study.

Don't panic if you don't get any studying some days! Just refer back to what you need to do and remind yourself of why you're studying.

I hope this helps!

Eloise
Second Year Psychology Student
Original post
by Anonymous
Even though I want to do good, I never seem to be able to. I can’t get myself to study. How do you guys do it?

Hey there 😃

I used to feel exactly the same way, so trust me you’re not alone! 😅💙 It’s really not easy to keep yourself motivated to study.

What made a huge difference for me was creating a study plan 📚 It keeps me motivated, eases the pressure of time, and lets me enjoy my breaks without guilt! For me, planning is always the first step. I start by quickly going through the material, figuring out the most effective revision method, and then breaking it down into smaller, manageable daily study sessions. I map everything out right up to my exam or assignment deadlines.

Honestly, it’s been a total game-changer for tackling stress, burnout, and keeping my motivation alive 🙌

My biggest advice: be kind to yourself and plan realistically, leaving a bit of extra time as a buffer. That way, when you finish earlier than expected (which happens a lot!), you’ll feel accomplished and get some bonus free time 🎉 It's so much healthier than cramming too much and feeling overwhelmed and discouraged all over again. Small, steady steps really do take you the furthest! 🕒🌟

I hope it will be helpful 💪 Feel free to reach out if you have any questions 😉 You can also chat with me or other students directly through The Ambassador Platform.

Take care,

Julia
Psychology student
De Montfort University

Reply 4

Original post
by Anonymous
Even though I want to do good, I never seem to be able to. I can’t get myself to study. How do you guys do it?

Hi,

I think wanting to do well but struggling to start is usually about feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, or unsure of where to begin, not a lack of motivation.

Usually when I start feeling that way, I would start small. Instead of thinking “I need to study for 3 hours,” I tell myself: “I’ll just open my notes and look at one topic for 20 minutes.” Once I start, momentum often follows. Starting is usually the hardest part. Motivation for me usually comes after I begin, not before. Try setting a timer (e.g., 25 minutes the Pomodoro technique), do a small chunk, then take a short break. The more you show up, the easier it becomes.

It's important to remove the all-or-nothing mindset. You don’t have to be perfect. Even half an hour of revision a day is better than nothing. Progress adds up. Be consistent, not extreme. You don’t need to study like a machine, just aim to build a rhythm that works for you.

Hope this helps,
Danish
BCU Student Rep

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