I so confused what this guy wants ?

I slept with a guy twice but we are not in relationships..The last time I forgot my earrings at his place.We haven't texted for couple day then I asked him if he found my earrings at his place he said yes he found them and that he will give me them.Then I replied with why you to give me them you probably busy I will send someone to pick them..And he left me on seen but okk because I saw that he is not in the town that time but when he got back he didn't replied texted either.. So I texted him again after couple days to ask if he can bring my earrings he said I so sorry I completely forgot I will bring them to you this Saturday evening is that oki? So on Saturday I replied to tell me where he can come to see if is oki for me?He didn't opened my message for hours and I unsend it ,then at 2 h night he texted with I so sorry I will come and bring them tomorrow...The next day I replied with I don't understand why you complicate I literally can send someone to take them!
Then he replied that he was sick yesterday and that he slept that night which is obviously I lie I think and asked me where I I am he will deliver them to me...Then I replied get well soon,I can't today but you can go if you want to my house and give them at the gate to security guy...He read message at night and left me on seen again?

So is this guy just playing with me ? Should I text him again to bring me them?If he doesn't want to see me I offered him way to give me them back without us meeting!

Reply 1

Dunnig Kruger

Who knows what's going on in his mind. With his lies and the nonsense he keeps saying.

It sounds like he wants to keep them as a trophy. And he's hoping you'll give up and go away.
Or maybe he wants to use them as an easy excuse to open the door to seeing you again for another love making session?
Or maybe a combination of those 2 things.
Or some other weird stuff going on in his head.

Do you and him have any mutual friends? If so, could you recruit 1 or more of them to helping you get back your property?

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

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by Anonymous

I slept with a guy twice but we are not in relationships..The last time I forgot my earrings at his place.We haven't texted for couple day then I asked him if he found my earrings at his place he said yes he found them and that he will give me them.Then I replied with why you to give me them you probably busy I will send someone to pick them..And he left me on seen but okk because I saw that he is not in the town that time but when he got back he didn't replied texted either.. So I texted him again after couple days to ask if he can bring my earrings he said I so sorry I completely forgot I will bring them to you this Saturday evening is that oki? So on Saturday I replied to tell me where he can come to see if is oki for me?He didn't opened my message for hours and I unsend it ,then at 2 h night he texted with I so sorry I will come and bring them tomorrow...The next day I replied with I don't understand why you complicate I literally can send someone to take them!
Then he replied that he was sick yesterday and that he slept that night which is obviously I lie I think and asked me where I I am he will deliver them to me...Then I replied get well soon,I can't today but you can go if you want to my house and give them at the gate to security guy...He read message at night and left me on seen again?
So is this guy just playing with me ? Should I text him again to bring me them?If he doesn't want to see me I offered him way to give me them back without us meeting!

Girl just forgot about the earrings

Reply 3

Anicka1

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by Dunnig Kruger

Who knows what's going on in his mind. With his lies and the nonsense he keeps saying.
It sounds like he wants to keep them as a trophy. And he's hoping you'll give up and go away.
Or maybe he wants to use them as an easy excuse to open the door to seeing you again for another love making session?
Or maybe a combination of those 2 things.
Or some other weird stuff going on in his head.
Do you and him have any mutual friends? If so, could you recruit 1 or more of them to helping you get back your property?

Sadly no,we know each other short time and only been out two times which ended up with you know....I already gave him option to send someone or leave them at my house but I don't get it why he complicate things instead to bring me by himself...

Reply 4

Dunnig Kruger

Could you get one of your friends to go knock on his door at a time when he's likely to be in, to collect them?
He's less likely to play silly games if you get someone else involved in this. Due to him being more embarrassed about this to a stranger than to you.

It's one of those where it also depends how valuable the ear-rings are. As Anon #2 rightly pointed out. The pragmatic solution may be to buy another set of ear-rings.

You could also try bombarding him with calls and messages till he gives you your property back.