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gap year experiences?!

i've just done my year 12 mocks and they honestly have not gone well, i've only got my grade for maths so far which is a d. physics and biology went terribly and i'm feeling really down about it as i know my predicted grades aren't going to be what i need (main idea for uni is biology or some kind of science course). obviously not making excuses for the lack of work i did for mocks but i've really struggled with my mental health for the majority of year 12 which really made me unmotivated and unable to do well in my subjects.

i feel like a bit of a let down and i've kind of realised i'm probably going to have to take a gap year, so i'm wondering what other people's experiences are with a gap year and i'm honestly hoping someone has been in my situation because i really don't know what to do. i do like the idea of having that time to work on myself, save some money, travel around a bit, and figure out what i actually want to do at uni (if i want to go to uni at all). the only thing that worries me a bit is feeling left behind, the idea of my friends and my boyfriend all going to uni while i'm still living at home and working seems really depressing, obviously some of them might take a gap year too but i feel quite alone in my situation as my school is very academic and most of the year have done amazingly well.

i'd really appreciate any advice/experiences about a gap year such as working, seeing friends, travelling etc... also i kinda feel like i'd be a bit out of place going to uni a year later, i'm sure i'm probably just overthinking it but the concept of it seems strange.

Reply 1

Hiii, I was in the same position as you in y12, i am now approaching the end of my gap year.
I initially wanted to do dentistry, had really bad predicted grades so couldn't apply, so I ended up deciding on taking a gap year and potentially re-applying. However I did also apply to uni for biomedical sciences - the unis with low entry requirements, just in case I had changed my mind, but also so it made clearing easier for me in case I found a course I wanted to do in clearing and Id also have better grades by then.
I'd say still apply for uni, and check out clearing, but also REALLY focus on ur a-levels. I somehow made the dumb mistake of flopping my predicted grade exams as well as my actual a-levels, so I am retaking currently. But genuinely my gap year has FLOWN by - it allowed me to apply for a course that I wasn't able to in yr12, and I currently have an offer for it. I got a job, and fortunately my friends weren't leaving home for uni so I could still see them, but I made work friends, gym friends, travelled back home to india for a month and honestly it was a nice to have time for myself.
Gap years are so so common so don't even worry about being there a year later and if it makes you feel better, uni degrees vary from 3,4,5 years, so you'd still be graduating at the same time, or earlier than someone taking a 4/5 year degree so don't worry about going too much. Also, there is a lot of time from now to your results day, and you may change your mind about what u want to do - I definitely did, so give it a good think because there may be a course u want to do that doesn't require taking a gap year,, also consider foundation years. I understand its really demotivating, I was honestly so upset getting my grades back, but use this as motivation to do so much better in ur a-levels, and it will all work out good luck xxx

Reply 2

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by evsurfer
i've just done my year 12 mocks and they honestly have not gone well, i've only got my grade for maths so far which is a d. physics and biology went terribly and i'm feeling really down about it as i know my predicted grades aren't going to be what i need (main idea for uni is biology or some kind of science course). obviously not making excuses for the lack of work i did for mocks but i've really struggled with my mental health for the majority of year 12 which really made me unmotivated and unable to do well in my subjects.
i feel like a bit of a let down and i've kind of realised i'm probably going to have to take a gap year, so i'm wondering what other people's experiences are with a gap year and i'm honestly hoping someone has been in my situation because i really don't know what to do. i do like the idea of having that time to work on myself, save some money, travel around a bit, and figure out what i actually want to do at uni (if i want to go to uni at all). the only thing that worries me a bit is feeling left behind, the idea of my friends and my boyfriend all going to uni while i'm still living at home and working seems really depressing, obviously some of them might take a gap year too but i feel quite alone in my situation as my school is very academic and most of the year have done amazingly well.
i'd really appreciate any advice/experiences about a gap year such as working, seeing friends, travelling etc... also i kinda feel like i'd be a bit out of place going to uni a year later, i'm sure i'm probably just overthinking it but the concept of it seems strange.

Whilst I didn't do a gap year before I started my bachelor's I did a gap year in between my undergrad and postgrad.

Things that I recommend you doing instead of just traveling, working, and saving money:

Do something that would get you closer to your desired career - be it a professional course (not too sure if there is anything specific to biology that you can do since it's mostly an academic discipline) or some sort of work experience (seems more appropriate). If it's science, your best bet is either at the local hospital or under an academic.

If you are working on yourself, I hope you mean getting mental health and looking into self development

If you do intend to get work, I would try to do something that would get you a higher wage rate that you can do on a part time basis instead of going for the usual: catering work, supermarkets, tutoring, retail, or care work. Think broader e.g. personal training, teaching English as a second language, junior marketing role, junior accounts, paralegal roles, start a business/freelance, lifeguard, sports coach, teaching assistant. You might need a short day course on it, but it's usually worth the money if it's only a few hundred pounds.

If you intend to work for a year, you would ideally go for something full time and pays well. It should be related to what you want to do, but it doesn't always work out that way.

I would also do things that you would need to prepare for university (a number of them tend to be short and relatively easy to do) e.g. pick up speed reading (or do a course on it), touch typing (10 hours online free exercises), master Microsoft Office, and learn academic writing

If you do courses and you intend for them to be useful for work, you want something that is recognised by the industry that you intend to work for e.g. whilst learning language courses from your local community college and from mum and pop's local language school are great, they're not equivalent to the language certificates (e.g. DELF, HSK, Goethi) internationally recognised by the country of origin. Likewise, doing a random marketing course of Udemy is probably not as useful as getting a Level 3 diploma from CIM.

If you do any courses that are recognised under an NVQ framework, you wouldn't want something that is higher than an NVQ Level 3 (e.g. A Level), otherwise you might run into a few funding problems with your uni course.

If you do engage in a personal project (e.g. making a film, creating a game, programming software, volunteer project, investment portfolio, writing a book, creating art), you should make it something that you would want to spend hours on and you can see yourself doing for several months. It should ideally be something relevant to what you want to do in your career later on, but it can't always be helped (especially if the career is in science). The only thing that I could possibly think of from the top of my head that I would immediately recommend is something in data science.

Unless you intend to do something financially drastic e.g. try to become a millionaire within a year, the most you would probably get in terms of money is something around £10k-15k. It's not going to be something life changing, so try to keep it in perspective.

Network with people in the career and industry that you intend to go into

Resit A Levels if required

Things that I generally recommend people to look into:

Getting your driver's license (if you haven't already)

Get into the best shape of your life

Look into self development and counselling (if necessary)

Learn a foreign language (or improve the ones you already know to A Level standard)

Look into professional certifications up to NVQ Level 3 if it's relevant for the job that you want to do (typically can be done in 1 month and have no entry requirements)

Read recommended books relevant to your desired career or subject

Build an investment portfolio or at least learn to invest properly

Learn a high income skill or a life skill that will become useful later

Network and find a mentor for your chosen career.

Resit specific A Levels, if relevant

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Reply 3

Hi Evsurfer!

Sorry to hear you are feeling that way about your mocks! Try not to be to hard on yourself, I was in a very similar position myself. At the beginning of my A levels I was certain I wanted to do a History Degree and then go into some History related career. When I got to the end of Year 13, I didn’t get the History grades I expected. I had fallen out of love with the subject and I was feeling a bit lost (a more common experience than you realise).

I decided the best choice for me was to take a gap year, and now two years into my undergraduate I can firmly say it was the right choice. Taking a gap year gave me the chance to work, which helped me gain experience and save some money. I was also able to travel to 6 different countries and meet some amazing people. Having that year out gave my brain a well needed break and allowed me to consider what course would be best for me (if any). After 12 month I decided to pursue a degree in Primary Teaching at Liverpool John Moores and I absolutely love it. I’m so grateful I took that time off because I truly think if I had pushed myself to go to uni when I wasn’t ready or sure about what I wanted, then I wouldn’t have had anywhere near as positive of an experience as I have had.

As for feeling left behind I empathise with your worries as I had the same but it didn’t work out that way at all. Everyone progressed at their own rate and was on their own path. Also, many of my friend that rushed into courses they weren’t ready for have now ending up dropping out. Once I joined LJMU a year ‘late’ I fit right in. Everyone at uni joins at different ages and if you are coming one or two years after your A levels you won’t even feel the difference. I have friends at LJMU who are 18 and friends who are 27, they are all just friends regardless how old they were when they decided uni was right for them.

My advice is do what you feel is right for you, not what people tell you should be!

I hope this eases your mind a little and best of luck with your exams. But remember grades aren’t everything and they don’t define you as a person.

Tilly 😁
LJMU Student Ambassador.

Reply 4

Original post
by lillywzw26
Hiii, I was in the same position as you in y12, i am now approaching the end of my gap year.
I initially wanted to do dentistry, had really bad predicted grades so couldn't apply, so I ended up deciding on taking a gap year and potentially re-applying. However I did also apply to uni for biomedical sciences - the unis with low entry requirements, just in case I had changed my mind, but also so it made clearing easier for me in case I found a course I wanted to do in clearing and Id also have better grades by then.
I'd say still apply for uni, and check out clearing, but also REALLY focus on ur a-levels. I somehow made the dumb mistake of flopping my predicted grade exams as well as my actual a-levels, so I am retaking currently. But genuinely my gap year has FLOWN by - it allowed me to apply for a course that I wasn't able to in yr12, and I currently have an offer for it. I got a job, and fortunately my friends weren't leaving home for uni so I could still see them, but I made work friends, gym friends, travelled back home to india for a month and honestly it was a nice to have time for myself.
Gap years are so so common so don't even worry about being there a year later and if it makes you feel better, uni degrees vary from 3,4,5 years, so you'd still be graduating at the same time, or earlier than someone taking a 4/5 year degree so don't worry about going too much. Also, there is a lot of time from now to your results day, and you may change your mind about what u want to do - I definitely did, so give it a good think because there may be a course u want to do that doesn't require taking a gap year,, also consider foundation years. I understand its really demotivating, I was honestly so upset getting my grades back, but use this as motivation to do so much better in ur a-levels, and it will all work out good luck xxx

Hi, can i pm you? i just got my last rejection for dentistry and im considering taking a gap year and reapplying but idk i feel so... not good enough? idk like maybe i should just pick another degree

Reply 5

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by chemmlover4eva
Hi, can i pm you? i just got my last rejection for dentistry and im considering taking a gap year and reapplying but idk i feel so... not good enough? idk like maybe i should just pick another degree

hey ofc xx
Original post
by evsurfer
i've just done my year 12 mocks and they honestly have not gone well, i've only got my grade for maths so far which is a d. physics and biology went terribly and i'm feeling really down about it as i know my predicted grades aren't going to be what i need (main idea for uni is biology or some kind of science course). obviously not making excuses for the lack of work i did for mocks but i've really struggled with my mental health for the majority of year 12 which really made me unmotivated and unable to do well in my subjects.
i feel like a bit of a let down and i've kind of realised i'm probably going to have to take a gap year, so i'm wondering what other people's experiences are with a gap year and i'm honestly hoping someone has been in my situation because i really don't know what to do. i do like the idea of having that time to work on myself, save some money, travel around a bit, and figure out what i actually want to do at uni (if i want to go to uni at all). the only thing that worries me a bit is feeling left behind, the idea of my friends and my boyfriend all going to uni while i'm still living at home and working seems really depressing, obviously some of them might take a gap year too but i feel quite alone in my situation as my school is very academic and most of the year have done amazingly well.
i'd really appreciate any advice/experiences about a gap year such as working, seeing friends, travelling etc... also i kinda feel like i'd be a bit out of place going to uni a year later, i'm sure i'm probably just overthinking it but the concept of it seems strange.

Hi there!

Sorry that you have been having a hard time with your studies. Whatever the outcome has been - a grade does not define you and whatever your goals are there's often more ways to achieve them. It is also extremely common and very normal to take a gap year or extra time out between studying, and should you decide to pursue a place at university in future you will find a wide range of ages and plenty of others in a similar position 😊

I wanted to jump on here to share how much of a positive impact it has been on my life having a gap year (which did turn into quite a long gap actually of nearly 10 years...but there was plenty of great reasons for this!)...

I did a variation of work in a wide range of roles, some relevant to my current course and some were on the complete opposite end of this but nonetheless gave me a wealth of different experiences, knowledge and skills. Additionally, I earned and saved some money to put towards things I really wanted to do.

I also did a wide range of travelling, including things like Interrail around Europe, Australia on a working holiday visa, and I taught English in Thailand for a few months after completing a TEFL (Teaching English in a Foreign Language) course. As well as giving me a huge range of skills developed in ways I never would have been able to in my home country, I also created memories that will last forever as special times in my life 🌏️🏝️

Now that I am studying at university and trying to get involved in work experience, volunteering and various other opportunities that come up along the way, I've found that these experiences have given me lots of useful content to discuss in interviews and applications as I always have things to draw on and discuss - and it often makes me stand out a bit more!

I can completely understand having difficulties when completing further education, it's a difficult time with lots of pressures and there can be a number of reasons why you may not achieve the grades you need for university. I personally wasn't initially able to achieve the grades I needed and the time out of education gave me the chance to work on the barriers I was facing, develop myself as person and explore the world. I certainly remember the concept of this feeling a little strange - but I assure you you will find your way, whatever you decide to do for your personal journey!

All the best ⭐️

Becky
University of Salford Student Rep

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