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School drama

I seriously can't keep up with problems and drama. I don't get it. People judge me for everything, literally. One friend, she's not even a friend, she is constantly talking **** about me, calling me rude and mentally unstable. Every time I try to get out of the situation, I'm dragged back in and harassed constantly. Fake friend, friend stealer, *****, I'M NONE OF THAT! What do I do? I really need some advice.

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by Naomi(?)
I seriously can't keep up with problems and drama. I don't get it. People judge me for everything, literally. One friend, she's not even a friend, she is constantly talking **** about me, calling me rude and mentally unstable. Every time I try to get out of the situation, I'm dragged back in and harassed constantly. Fake friend, friend stealer, *****, I'M NONE OF THAT! What do I do? I really need some advice.
Yepp I can kind of relate. In my school I was part of a lovely friend group with nice people. About 5 months ago, some friends had a fallout over some minor misunderstanding. Some of the 'friends' revealed their true colors and formed a mini alliance, ignoring other friends who weren't part of their circle. They talked trash behind their backs, spread rumors about the non alliance friends, created unnecessary drama, all over this minor misunderstanding which could've been solved in 2 weeks at most. It wasn't a great situation. I talked to some of my friends who had rumors spread about them and trash talked about their backs, and they said they just ignored the trash talkers and never joined the friend group/ never acknowledged the trash talkers, and found new friends to hang out with instead. They also used the time to focus on themselves and their schoolwork.
My advice is to ignore the 'friend' of yours, report them to a teacher if necessary.
That's about all I can say :smile:
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by Naomi(?)
I seriously can't keep up with problems and drama. I don't get it. People judge me for everything, literally. One friend, she's not even a friend, she is constantly talking **** about me, calling me rude and mentally unstable. Every time I try to get out of the situation, I'm dragged back in and harassed constantly. Fake friend, friend stealer, *****, I'M NONE OF THAT! What do I do? I really need some advice.

Id report them to a teacher.

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