he broke up with me but still wants sex

Stop.

Fair? no, but predictable.
Depending how you look at it, you broke up but you still expect to somewhat continue as normal, ie live in his house and be supported, apparently he sees this much the same.
Stating the obvious here but this messiness is why when people split up they often immediately stop living together.

Given the volatile nature of the relationship, and the breakup/make up routine that has been going on indefinitely, this is entirely predictable and quite understandable from his POV.

Hi Ciel! I remember seeing your posts when I was active on here a few years ago, hope you're doing well
I think, in this case, it's obviously not fair.
As others have said though, it is a little predictable if you live together, and going by Admit-One's comment, have been breaking up and making up continuously.
Maybe you guys need plans on moving out? Who owns the house? Or are you both sharing rent?
There seems to be more to this story, maybe it's spanned across a few posts?

he came up to me drunk last night, acting like evertything's fine lol (we still live together for now). when i called him out, he told me to stop playing hard to get. like i’m some ****. do you think that’s fair?

respectfully, the last two lines should really be the focus. please face your fears, embrace the fresh start, and actually move out asap. the longer you stay with him KNOWING he wants you to go and that it’s his place, the more inappropriate and unsafe it will become
so what if you are left with nothing? then you have nothing to lose and most cities have safe houses, hotlines, and resources specifically for domestic violence (which you would def qualify for in light of your other post). yes leaving will be tough but it will save you in the long run and will help you see you CAN do this and your life doesn’t have to depend on him at all. you’re your own person and it’s time

i don't know how to. i don't have the mental strength to do it. i have no intention of moving anywhere unless he removes me from this house by force, lol
also, i would not qualify for anything DV related because that's just not part of our relationship. i hate the government anyway so wouldn't want anyything from them..

so your plan is…. living with your ex indefinitely until you’re old and grey? hoping he’s bluffing about the breakup or forgets you’re supposed to be leaving… until kingdom come? I’ve been down this road (but with family) last year and they were 100% serious. They gave me a date and when I was still there, it was a month of hell and threats until I dipped. I went with $800, 2 suitcases, stayed with a friend for 2 weeks, and then miraculously made it work city to city, month to month after that. I’m not even in the country anymore lol so that’s the gag
but please actually make plans despite the uncertainty- it doesn’t have to be the most solid. At some point, when he kicks you out, homelessness will be the reality and I need you to make peace with that if you’re not gonna work and save, find resources, move in with a friend, etc. You don’t have to know how, that’s ok. Neither did I, AND you do have to try; you figure it out as you go. Trust me, it’s better to leave on your terms with a little than for the cops to get involved and it get ugly. you CAN start over anywhere and it’s really freeing believe it or not

hey there. hope you’re okay and that life outside tsr has been treating you well.
it’s true we’ve been arguing a lot lately, but this is the first time he’s actually said he’s ending things and that he wants me to move out. : ( he owns the house, and honestly, pretty much everything else too. so i’m basically left with nothing. i was still hoping he might change his mind, but he’s been acting weird.. kind of mean sometimes, for no real reason. i think he genuinely hates me at this point. but i still can’t imagine what life would be like without him. i’ve never even lived alone, and the idea of it honestly terrifies me

I understand.
Do you have parents or a friend you could move in with in the mean time?

home was kinda toxic tbh. i got out early and not going back. ill figure something out

This is kinda a joke but not at the same time if you still need someone to move in with by the time im legally an adult you can crash with me and my friend I already have enough in my savings I just gotta wait 3 years 😭😭🙏🙏