year 8 might get excluded for sexual harresement

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i had a crush. everybody figured out i liked her. i said some inaproppiate stuuf and i said iwanna smak her ass 1 of her friends figured out they want to report to safeguarding but i dont want that to happen bc if she does ill get permanenteky excludeed and they talked to me abou thus and i feel really bad of saying that and i told her friend that and she said say sorry to her and but i have a friend who has a crush on my crush friend and he said some weird stuff and my other friends are thinking of telling her but if she knows shell probably report me and him to safeguarding and well get excluded permenantely if she reports us. LET ME KNKW WHAT I SHOULD SO I DONT GET INTO TROUBLE thanks for taking the time to read this guys update they reported me to safeguarding tmr i go school and see if am expelled pray for me😢😢😢😞🥺

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Anonymous #1

maybe don't make inappropriate comments about girls in your class, idk if you will get excluded but why make such jokes to begin with, especially to people who know her personally. it's rude, inconsiderate and unnecessary. making girls feel uncomfortable in a place they go to everyday is disgusting and if they feel like they want to report it they should.

it also sounds like you're more concerned with getting in trouble than acknowledging how you might be affecting the girls in this situation?

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MoemenYaqub

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Original post by Anonymous

maybe don't make inappropriate comments about girls in your class, idk if you will get excluded but why make such jokes to begin with, especially to people who know her personally. it's rude, inconsiderate and unnecessary. making girls feel uncomfortable in a place they go to everyday is disgusting and if they feel like they want to report it they should.
it also sounds like you're more concerned with getting in trouble than acknowledging how you might be affecting the girls in this situation?

no i already apologised to her in person and told her i regret saying it she accepted my apology and i regret saying it sooooooooooooooooooooo much and i apologised to her friemds to but her friends are still angry at me for doing that am rying to make it up to dem bc i know they have every right to do so but the girl i said it about doesnt care if they report me or not so her friends want to

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MoemenYaqub

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Original post by MoemenYaqub

no i already apologised to her in person and told her i regret saying it she accepted my apology and i regret saying it sooooooooooooooooooooo much and i apologised to her friemds to but her friends are still angry at me for doing that am rying to make it up to dem bc i know they have every right to do so but the girl i said it about doesnt care if they report me or not so her friends want to

i know a sorry isnt gona fix everything and am sooooooo wierd for sayin dat but im also concerned if ill get kicked out of my school because my friends said i can

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MoemenYaqub

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Original post by Anonymous

maybe don't make inappropriate comments about girls in your class, idk if you will get excluded but why make such jokes to begin with, especially to people who know her personally. it's rude, inconsiderate and unnecessary. making girls feel uncomfortable in a place they go to everyday is disgusting and if they feel like they want to report it they should.
it also sounds like you're more concerned with getting in trouble than acknowledging how you might be affecting the girls in this situation?

btw i do feel concerned for the girls and what i said is completely dumb and weird but ichanged and i dont want get permanentely excluded ive changed

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Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

maybe don't make inappropriate comments about girls in your class, idk if you will get excluded but why make such jokes to begin with, especially to people who know her personally. it's rude, inconsiderate and unnecessary. making girls feel uncomfortable in a place they go to everyday is disgusting and if they feel like they want to report it they should.
it also sounds like you're more concerned with getting in trouble than acknowledging how you might be affecting the girls in this situation?

prsom

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Anonymous #3

Original post by MoemenYaqub

i had a crush. everybody figured out i liked her. i said some inaproppiate stuuf and i said iwanna smak her ass 1 of her friends figured out they want to report to safeguarding but i dont want that to happen bc if she does ill get permanenteky excludeed and they talked to me abou thus and i feel really bad of saying that and i told her friend that and she said say sorry to her and but i have a friend who has a crush on my crush friend and he said some weird stuff and my other friends are thinking of telling her but if she knows shell probably report me and him to safeguarding and well get excluded permenantely if she reports us. LET ME KNKW WHAT I SHOULD SO I DONT GET INTO TROUBLE thanks for taking the time to read this guys update they reported me to safeguarding tmr i go school and see if am expelled pray for me😢😢😢😞🥺

you're y8 - not to be rude but they're not gonna kick you out for that my goodness, unless you said anything extremely offensive. for the benchmark a kid in our school brought in knives and kept threatening to stab people - it's that kind of thing that'll get you excluded. just turn up if you get called out, apologise, maybe they'll send an email home but other than that i hardly doubt it will come to anything, your school will have bigger problems to deal with!
but as a sidenote the girls are probably over exaggerating to you to get a reaction, and hopefully you're aware that 1) there's not much point crushing/dating in y8 cos you're like 12 or 13, and 2) you've got to treat people with respect and it sounds like you did not do that, so learn that for next time

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Old Skool Freak

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Original post by MoemenYaqub

i had a crush. everybody figured out i liked her. i said some inaproppiate stuuf and i said iwanna smak her ass 1 of her friends figured out they want to report to safeguarding but i dont want that to happen bc if she does ill get permanenteky excludeed and they talked to me abou thus and i feel really bad of saying that and i told her friend that and she said say sorry to her and but i have a friend who has a crush on my crush friend and he said some weird stuff and my other friends are thinking of telling her but if she knows shell probably report me and him to safeguarding and well get excluded permenantely if she reports us. LET ME KNKW WHAT I SHOULD SO I DONT GET INTO TROUBLE thanks for taking the time to read this guys update they reported me to safeguarding tmr i go school and see if am expelled pray for me😢😢😢😞🥺

If that was (honestly) all you said... I doubt you'll get excluded for that; especially if it's the first thing you've done of this nature. Even if it does come to that, there are always appeal processes. On the other hand, if you're known to have a habit of picking on people, then it may well be the final nail in the coffin for you.

If you are reported, and you're called in, then explain that you did like her, say you're very sorry for what you said, and it was never your intention to cause any alarm or distress... and offer to give the girl a sincere apology, if she will accept it. Assuming you don't get expelled, take any punishment they give you on the chin, and obviously don't EVER send anything like this again (unless you KNOW there's a mutual attraction).

Original post by Anonymous

maybe don't make inappropriate comments about girls in your class, idk if you will get excluded but why make such jokes to begin with, especially to people who know her personally. it's rude, inconsiderate and unnecessary. making girls feel uncomfortable in a place they go to everyday is disgusting and if they feel like they want to report it they should.
it also sounds like you're more concerned with getting in trouble than acknowledging how you might be affecting the girls in this situation?

Although I agree with the sentiment of this post, I think the tone is perhaps a bit harsh. Let's not forget the OP is in Year 8, so is probably 12-13 years old; I'm sure we've all done stupid stuff at that age. In the original post, he says that he sent it to his crush, so I'm sure it wasn't his intention to make her (or anyone) feel uncomfortable.

Just a thought, but maybe his behaviour is a consequence of his environment or the things that kids are exposed to these days?

Original post by Anonymous

you're y8 - not to be rude but they're not gonna kick you out for that my goodness, unless you said anything extremely offensive. for the benchmark a kid in our school brought in knives and kept threatening to stab people - it's that kind of thing that'll get you excluded. just turn up if you get called out, apologise, maybe they'll send an email home but other than that i hardly doubt it will come to anything, your school will have bigger problems to deal with!
but as a sidenote the girls are probably over exaggerating to you to get a reaction, and hopefully you're aware that 1) there's not much point crushing/dating in y8 cos you're like 12 or 13, and 2) you've got to treat people with respect and it sounds like you did not do that, so learn that for next time

Agreed (PROSM BTW)

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Anonymous #4

your not gonna get expelled but honestly you need to learn from what you did. as a teenage girl what you said was wrong, sexualising girls for simply existing in school isn't right even if you have a crush on her. there is a difference between saying something like that in a relationship to saying it about a girl who doesn't like you back. she may have forgiven you but that's just at face value- i'm sure she is just trying to not make a big deal but her friends are trying to support her for this. don't do something like that again- i hope the safeguarding team teaches you a lesson!

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