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I'm in love with a girl who I don't think loves me back

Please help me

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Reply 1

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by Anonymous
I'm in love with a girl who I don't think loves me back
Please help me


Do you want to confess to her or move on?

Reply 2

Confessing will just make it weird though

Reply 3

Original post
by Anonymous
I'm in love with a girl who I don't think loves me back
Please help me

Accept it and move on there’s nothing you can do about it. :dontknow:

Reply 4

move on mohammed

Reply 5

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by Anonymous
move on mohammed

I already have what’s your point cheeky enough for you to hide behind anonymous.

Reply 6

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by Mohammed_2000
Accept it and move on there’s nothing you can do about it. :dontknow:


Chat to her more charm her up

Reply 7

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by Anonymous
Chat to her more charm her up

Oh I did. I did everything I could. Sadly a waste of time. Especially when you’ve waited ever so long and gave it your all. No human is worth wasting your time on :dontknow:.

Reply 8

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by Mohammed_2000
Oh I did. I did everything I could. Sadly a waste of time. Especially when you’ve waited ever so long and gave it your all. No human is worth wasting your time on :dontknow:.

You did everything you could - according your understanding of what you should do to attract and interest her.
Has your understanding of this changed as a result of your experience (in the broadest sense of the term "experience")?
What would you do differently next time?

There's plenty that the original poster could do to win the heart of this person that doesn't love them back.
It's not guaranteed to work. But it's worth giving it a try.

The Dan Bacon youtube channel (also check out Bobby Rio and Chris Sixty) has lots of great videos on how to win someone back. And on how to win them in the first place. And how to keep them won once you've got them.
It's not rocket science, but it is counter-intuitive to a lot of people.
Having the right inner world is a great foundation for winning the hearts of people you're interested in. The more mental and emotional strength that you have - and therefore display - the better your chance of romantic success. And vice versa with mental or emotional weakness.

Reply 9

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by Dunnig Kruger
You did everything you could - according your understanding of what you should do to attract and interest her.
Has your understanding of this changed as a result of your experience (in the broadest sense of the term "experience")?
What would you do differently next time?
There's plenty that the original poster could do to win the heart of this person that doesn't love them back.
It's not guaranteed to work. But it's worth giving it a try.
The Dan Bacon youtube channel (also check out Bobby Rio and Chris Sixty) has lots of great videos on how to win someone back. And on how to win them in the first place. And how to keep them won once you've got them.
It's not rocket science, but it is counter-intuitive to a lot of people.
Having the right inner world is a great foundation for winning the hearts of people you're interested in. The more mental and emotional strength that you have - and therefore display - the better your chance of romantic success. And vice versa with mental or emotional weakness.

What would I do differently next time? Hmmm to be honest don’t chase really to be honest allow them to chase you that goes to show how much they really want you...

Reply 10

So if a girl doesn't want to give you her socials what should you do? How can u win her over?

Reply 11

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by Anonymous
So if a girl doesn't want to give you her socials what should you do? How can u win her over?

I mean look if she doesn’t want to give you her socials. Like obviously make a move make her aware in the very least you like her, then she’ll slowly and eventually open up it’ll give signs and indications in other words to her and between you both whether that’s informally like a place to eat and drink in a cafe okay so be it do that. Whether that’s publicly but lowkey like respectable and comfortable for you both okay so be it.

Reply 12

And remember one thing my brother no girl is worth ever waiting for. Time here is crucial and important maybe a year or so I get it but anything else then your getting led and played on bro and time is valuable and important know your value and worth and as a person what your able to just bring as a person because at the end of the day ones loss is another gain whilst I am debatable on that in general someone will be appreciative and thankful for you again I just quiz that in general to my liking. Because I don’t know :dontknow:
(edited 11 months ago)

Reply 13

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by Mohammed_2000
What would I do differently next time? Hmmm to be honest don’t chase really to be honest allow them to chase you that goes to show how much they really want you...

There's a lot of wisdom in what you've said there.
Combine allowing her to chase with you, yourself, being a great catch and you have a winning combination.

Original post
by Anonymous
So if a girl doesn't want to give you her socials what should you do? How can u win her over?

Check out the youtube channels I mentioned. They give lots of guidance on this.
The key is that when you're with her, you speak and behave in ways that pique her interest and attraction.
And getting her socials isn't the goal. Seeing her again is the goal. With the idea that any level headed woman that spends time with you is likely to like you a lot or fall in love with you.
Get her agreement to meet you again - probably for some low pressure activity, such as a drink and a chat - and then getting her phone number is an automatic step in the process of meeting again.

Reply 14

Original post
by Dunnig Kruger
There's a lot of wisdom in what you've said there.
Combine allowing her to chase with you, yourself, being a great catch and you have a winning combination.
Check out the youtube channels I mentioned. They give lots of guidance on this.
The key is that when you're with her, you speak and behave in ways that pique her interest and attraction.
And getting her socials isn't the goal. Seeing her again is the goal. With the idea that any level headed woman that spends time with you is likely to like you a lot or fall in love with you.
Get her agreement to meet you again - probably for some low pressure activity, such as a drink and a chat - and then getting her phone number is an automatic step in the process of meeting again.

@Dunnig Kruger what do you mean by wisdom if you don’t mind me asking my friend?

Reply 15

I meant wisdom as in the dictionary definition of the word:
"the ability to use your knowledge and experience to make good decisions and judgments"

Reply 16

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by Persondoinggcse
u and mohammed needs to shush and just get shushed tung tung tung tung sahur lil bro

Na I don’t need to shush. And you don’t need to tell me to shush either.

Reply 17

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by Anonymous
So if a girl doesn't want to give you her socials what should you do? How can u win her over?
socials are overrated.
why can’t we love and be charismatic in the traditional way hm?
…I blame Snapchat.

Reply 18

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by Persondoinggcse
u and mohammed needs to shush and just get shushed tung tung tung tung sahur lil bro
literal translation btw 😭✌️
“u and Mohammed needs to shush and just get shushed and wake up for sahur lil bro”

Reply 19

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by Anonymous
literal translation btw 😭✌️
“u and Mohammed needs to shush and just get shushed and wake up for sahur lil bro”

that is not the literal translation bro is not onto something bro is ON something😭

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