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Advice with a girl

I am in sixth form and I have feelings for my of my friends but I can’t read her and don’t want to say anything in case it ruins our friendship but I feel like she give mixed signals like last year she had a mood ring on and hid the colour but I’m pretty sure one of the possible meaning was love and she said she would tell our other friend but wouldn’t tell me so I don’t know if she has feelings or if she didn’t was to send the wrong impression. Another time she was talking to some of our friends in lesson and I was sat in the other side of the room and after someone asked me if I was straight and I said yes her friend said to her maybe he has a secret crush and after my friend hid under her coat and got tissue out of her bag and typed a message on her phone to show her other friend and when they realised I was looking they looked shocked but when I ask about it she avoids answering and I asked her friend if she had a secret but she got annoyed that I went behind her back. But she makes makes comments and makes it of eye contact but now she barely compliments me this year. The other days she was calling other boys fit and then they started asking me a load of questions about my sister and the other day they all sat outside and left me on my own and I don’t know if that was intentional but we have also never met up outside of school. And we said about 3 of use going to a Christmas lights switch on but she said she thought that was just chit chat not actual plans and went with the other person and other girls saying it was a girls trip. So I don’t know what to think and I would appreciate any advice since I have had strong feelings for her for a while?

Reply 1

And we are leaving sixth form in 5 weeks and I’m worried that we might grow apart at uni and that I might miss my chance

Reply 2

just shoot your shot mannnnn, if not then there's plenty of other fish in the sea

Reply 3

Original post by Anonymous
just shoot your shot mannnnn, if not then there's plenty of other fish in the sea


Thanks for the advice but it’s easier said then done and my parents are very judgmental and would probably judge her based on how she looks when her personality is amazing

Reply 4

Original post by Anonymous
Thanks for the advice but it’s easier said then done and my parents are very judgmental and would probably judge her based on how she looks when her personality is amazing

then go for someone prettier.....

Reply 5

Original post by Anonymous
then go for someone prettier.....


But her personality is amazing and I’ve had feelings for her for a while and she is quite literally in my dreams

Reply 6

you just said she was ugly basically bro, imagine her reading this

Reply 7

Original post by Anonymous
you just said she was ugly basically bro, imagine her reading this


I didn’t say she was ugly she alright looking I’m just saying I have met prettier girls

Reply 8

Original post by Anonymous
I didn’t say she was ugly she alright looking I’m just saying I have met prettier girls

'alright looking' is insane, got for the prettier girl then you plum

Reply 9

if u have 5 weeks left, just ask her. even if u get rejected in the most horrendous way possible, it wont even matter anymore cuz u wud be going to uni and not seeing them again. if she says yes... yay!! don't care abt ur parent's judgment as its literally ur life. also saying "prettier girls" is kinda weird of u. and btw someone else might think she's the prettiest girl ever and ask her first so don't lose ur chance bro.

Reply 10

Original post by Anonymous
if u have 5 weeks left, just ask her. even if u get rejected in the most horrendous way possible, it wont even matter anymore cuz u wud be going to uni and not seeing them again. if she says yes... yay!! don't care abt ur parent's judgment as its literally ur life. also saying "prettier girls" is kinda weird of u. and btw someone else might think she's the prettiest girl ever and ask her first so don't lose ur chance bro.


Thanks for the advice

Reply 11

Original post by Anonymous
Thanks for the advice

np lmk how it goes

Reply 12

Original post by Anonymous
I didn’t say she was ugly she alright looking I’m just saying I have met prettier girls

nahh bro if she saw you saying this you'd be cancllledddd
tbh just ask her what's going on. things will ony become awkward if you make them awkward.

Reply 13

Original post by Anonymous
I am in sixth form and I have feelings for my of my friends but I can’t read her and don’t want to say anything in case it ruins our friendship but I feel like she give mixed signals like last year she had a mood ring on and hid the colour but I’m pretty sure one of the possible meaning was love and she said she would tell our other friend but wouldn’t tell me so I don’t know if she has feelings or if she didn’t was to send the wrong impression. Another time she was talking to some of our friends in lesson and I was sat in the other side of the room and after someone asked me if I was straight and I said yes her friend said to her maybe he has a secret crush and after my friend hid under her coat and got tissue out of her bag and typed a message on her phone to show her other friend and when they realised I was looking they looked shocked but when I ask about it she avoids answering and I asked her friend if she had a secret but she got annoyed that I went behind her back. But she makes makes comments and makes it of eye contact but now she barely compliments me this year. The other days she was calling other boys fit and then they started asking me a load of questions about my sister and the other day they all sat outside and left me on my own and I don’t know if that was intentional but we have also never met up outside of school. And we said about 3 of use going to a Christmas lights switch on but she said she thought that was just chit chat not actual plans and went with the other person and other girls saying it was a girls trip. So I don’t know what to think and I would appreciate any advice since I have had strong feelings for her for a while?

just shoot bro you got like a month until ur gone, but i wouldn't do nun serious because you will most def grow apart when ur in diff unis. dont get cooked in this economy LOOL

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