What is love?

What does love mean to you how do you explain the feeling of love to someone such as the heavy heart feeling from a heartbreak or the joy it brings it’s confusing how love can be a series of emotions all on it’s own so what does love mean to you?

lol jsut seeing this on my feed. I had my first proper heartbreak lst summer and omg i wouldn't wish that on anyone i will be real. You wake up with such a heavy heart and its the worst feeling in the world

I had mine recently. It’s hard to forget and accept.

yeah it takes a while, i believe it took me at least 6 months to fully forget and move on

yeah it takes a while, i believe it took me at least 6 months to fully forget and move on

For me it’s sticking through, through and thin. Fighting for one and other and never giving up on each other remembering that love is given two ways not one way.

I think the last sentence is possibly the most important thing. If it's just one way, then it's not love, it's an obsession.

Yeah and sadly it sums up the apparent love that was between us. I was the obsessive one and she well she became cold, dry. Her heart changed. She forgot about everything.

felt this way. tho he wanted me first and i blew him off till we became closer as friends. then i became overly obsessed (never again 😭) and he became distant and dry. came to login to his socials and there he was being a little cheat. I did have a bit of a hunch he was doing something sly but i ignored my gut feelings.

Sorry you experienced it in the first place. Well lessons learnt never to be overly obsessed or obsessed no one worth putting the time into or wasting time on. Classical cheating, to be honest I always said to her your more than free your more than welcome to walk away yet you remember if there’s another guy what I have to offer in comparison to him you’ll always remember and regret especially after everything I done for her.

it's okay. it's just something you learn the hard way and then move on. as a girl, i think we tend to attach ourselves more on an emotional level, so the heartbreak hits more harder then ever, even tho this wasn't my first. But Alhamdullilah, I don't look back at anything in that past anymore. What's gone, is gone, and I believe God has everything planned for me, for everyone. I filled the void with new hobbies and interests so I am doing good and I wont ever look back again. That being said, I still despise that mf for the constant lies, betrayal and gaslighting, I had gotten to a point where I wanted to run him over 😭, but I know what goes around will eventually come around, so moving in silence whilst working on yourself is the best and most beneficial thing to do. Whether you're a girl or guy, it doesn't matter. The pain stings, but that pain will make you grow and you will learn to grow and be better than before.
And totally as you said, she will remember the things you did for her, maybe not immediately, but it will for sure hit her. Sometimes it's their loss and even if they beg for you back after realisation strikes them, it's too late, the damage has been done. They only realised what they lost was soo good for them, when they lost it in the end. They didn't appreciate it whilst it was there. Hope you're okay and I am so sorry for what you had experienced. We're in this together.

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What is love? 🤩🎉

Sign of the times that your mind didn't automatically sing "baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more" like mine did.

Not to be uncharitable but... whenever I read something like this I always wonder, did she put a gun to your head and force you to patiently wait three years? Did she even ask you to? Did she just not feel comfortable telling you to get lost 🤔