Relationship Anxiety

Is relationship anxiety a thing? Like ever since my partner split up with me and we don’t talk to each other I feel so unhappy and sad. My mood is lacklustre nothing grumpy or moody but a little frustrated a side never seen at all before or during my time spent with her. She felt home, she was my comfort zone my safe spot now even around my work surroundings I don’t feel safe. I feel anxious and scared. I thank my best friend for all he does for me, but without I am nothing. I am lost to pieces, my heart is shattered, I want to cry. 5 and a half months ago we said quits to a 3 year relationship and this upcoming week in the middle of the week will be 3 years we first met each other but without in each other presence. I apologise if I am venting but I honestly and actually don’t know what to do I want to cry and cry badly 😭

get a new partner

Na mate.

so u just want to drown in ur suffering instead of moving on and finding someone better and having a happy life

so u just want to drown in ur suffering instead of moving on and finding someone better and having a happy life

if she cared about you then she wouldnt have left why do u care for someone that doesnt care about you

Well it’s a tough one to be honest I love her so much, my heart is numb and weak. My heart still has so much love for her. And I am still waiting for her. There’s nothing more I can do but that. Yes there’s tears to hold back but for me to fight and stay strong for her I’ll have to do that.

wdym stay strong for her she is gone bro she LEFT you u need to move on its better for u to move on from the pain and suffering and become happy once again

Brother don’t see it happening man. Damage has been done. I was too emotionally attached to her, she made me happy so much, I loved her so much. I can’t see it happening I just can’t.

Brother don’t see it happening man. Damage has been done. I was too emotionally attached to her, she made me happy so much, I loved her so much. I can’t see it happening I just can’t.

I think you might benefit from therapy, I don't know why exactly she left but it appears that your feelings are very intense and you might find value in unpacking that with someone who can help

imagine ur ex fighting for her life on the toilet

Honestly I’m not sure what or how to comment to that but…okay….

WAIT I SWR IM BEING DEAD SERIOUS. It sorta helped me get over a crush

Hello, I completely get you. I experienced something similar with my ex boyfriend. However, I promise it gets better. Don't try to shut out your emotions for her. Like you said, you clearly love her still. Instead learn to cope with the fact that you were there for her like she was for you. Shutting out love doesn't help. Trust meeee. See if you can still be friends with her. Because obviously you're attached and she probably is too. I really hope you recover

Thank you so much 😢. I really appreciate and am glad someone able to relate. I mean we haven’t closed the door on contacting each other although communication has become very dry between the both of us her especially. Before we would text every single day if anything between the both of us the one likely that is going to initiate a text is me.