My boyfriend

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't care about me and I don't know what to do. Every time he plans a time for us to hangout he is anywhere from 30 to an hour and a half late, every single time. He never makes an effort to do anything but get fast food of his choice and chill in his basement. For example yesterday I asked to see him soon and he said today I could but when I asked him what he wanted to do he said idk you pick and I wouldn't so his final solution was "give me options or we can just go get food like normal". I gave up after that. I feel like he doesn't care about my emotions. either because when we first got into a relationship I told him straight off the bat that I have big reactions to stronger emotions but I was working on it. First he would always tell me to calm down or chill out but now recently that I have done that he's saying I never talk about my feelings and he cant figure out what i'm feeling. I always tell him when I feel any certain way but it seems like it doesn't get through to him. He always forgets things, like how i got into college, how i was tired and a bit cranky because i couldn't sleep for days. He just makes it seem like he doesn't care and anytime i bring things up he just says sorry to shut me up. We have been together 6 months and he has never once taken me on a date, I told him I loved him and he completely blew me off. I care so much but I feel like he could give a crap less about me.

If he's put this little effort into the first 6 months... just break up. He's not suddenly going to turn this around.

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't care about me and I don't know what to do. Every time he plans a time for us to hangout he is anywhere from 30 to an hour and a half late, every single time. He never makes an effort to do anything but get fast food of his choice and chill in his basement. For example yesterday I asked to see him soon and he said today I could but when I asked him what he wanted to do he said idk you pick and I wouldn't so his final solution was "give me options or we can just go get food like normal". I gave up after that. I feel like he doesn't care about my emotions. either because when we first got into a relationship I told him straight off the bat that I have big reactions to stronger emotions but I was working on it. First he would always tell me to calm down or chill out but now recently that I have done that he's saying I never talk about my feelings and he cant figure out what i'm feeling. I always tell him when I feel any certain way but it seems like it doesn't get through to him. He always forgets things, like how i got into college, how i was tired and a bit cranky because i couldn't sleep for days. He just makes it seem like he doesn't care and anytime i bring things up he just says sorry to shut me up. We have been together 6 months and he has never once taken me on a date, I told him I loved him and he completely blew me off. I care so much but I feel like he could give a crap less about me.

Girl no effort from a man means he doesn’t care about you and that is not a good relationship pls end it I know it will be hard but you deserve way better and there is better out there ! it’s only effort from you and that’s not how relationships work effort should be from both sides so please do yourself a favour and break up