Help I got asked out by a 12 year old😭🙏

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by Ilikehellokitty

I was yapping with friends and my little sister (shes 9) when this on boy asked to talk to me (I’m 14 he’s 12) he said he really likes me and wants to be with me and I was trying to make him understand it was weird because I’m in 9th grade he’s in 7th but he complained it’s only 2 years and I told him I wouldn’t be comfortable dating a pre teen and especially since we met 2 days ago and all he’s done has made sexual jokes about me or my sister how do I make him understand me dating him isn’t right ?

Why do you need to make him understand? You've told him to jog on, just ignore the little creep.

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Ciel.

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by Ilikehellokitty

He makes jokes about being her over and f**king her saying since he’s single game is game

sorry, it was a rhetorical question, i just couldn't believe it. ugh, that's horrible, please just protect her from that creep, don't let her hear that kind of stuff. tell him to **** off, and tell your parents or teachers if he continues, no one should have to put up with something like that, his age isn't an excuse

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OP

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by Ciel.

sorry, it was a rhetorical question, i just couldn't believe it. ugh, that's horrible, please just protect her from that creep, don't let her hear that kind of stuff. tell him to **** off, and tell your parents or teachers if he continues, no one should have to put up with something like that, his age isn't an excuse

Yea I just blocked him on everything since I’m in high school I won’t see him and my sister is in elementary so she won’t see him the friend group probably won’t be to happy about it but idrc

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Ciel.

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by Ilikehellokitty

Yea I just blocked him on everything since I’m in high school I won’t see him and my sister is in elementary so she won’t see him the friend group probably won’t be to happy about it but idrc

that's good. if they jugde you for blocking a literal little creep, then they're not even worth your time tbh

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Anonymous #1

Whenever he says anything to you ignore him. Don’t look at him and don’t say anything, keep a straight face. He probably thinks his jokes are cool and edgy so he does just to get your reaction, he will look like a fool if you make no reaction.

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OP

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by Ciel.

that's good. if they jugde you for blocking a literal little creep, then they're not even worth your time tbh

Yea hopefully he doesn’t try anything he lowk reminds me of my ex tbh 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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by Ilikehellokitty

I was yapping with friends and my little sister (shes 9) when this on boy asked to talk to me (I’m 14 he’s 12) he said he really likes me and wants to be with me and I was trying to make him understand it was weird because I’m in 9th grade he’s in 7th but he complained it’s only 2 years and I told him I wouldn’t be comfortable dating a pre teen and especially since we met 2 days ago and all he’s done has made sexual jokes about me or my sister how do I make him understand me dating him isn’t right ?

I literally just saw this and I'm shocked. Why is he saying these things to a 9 year old? You've already told him why you're not comfortable going out with him and this is just an extra cherry on the top. Honestly from what I've seen you've done all the right things. Hopefully that will put creeps like him in their place.

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Adz2042

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by Ilikehellokitty

Yea hopefully he doesn’t try anything he lowk reminds me of my ex tbh 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

You'll be okay 🙂 It's hard to deal with people who won't take no for an answer, or who try to insight fear by making snarky comments of a sexual nature.
I'm sure you'll find someone who respects you for you, is kind and stands up for you. They are the people you want in life. Not this guy 🙂

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lamaragymnast

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he's obviously trying to impress you by saying sexual stuff because he thinks thats what 'grown ups' talk about. hes just not old enough to realise that what he's saying isnt coming across as exactly mature, although plenty of adult guys arent any better. just take it as flattering in a weird way that he likes you so much and tell him to come back in 6 years. dont worry about it, im sure it wont be the first time.

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by lamaragymnast

he's obviously trying to impress you by saying sexual stuff because he thinks thats what 'grown ups' talk about. hes just not old enough to realise that what he's saying isnt coming across as exactly mature, although plenty of adult guys arent any better. just take it as flattering in a weird way that he likes you so much and tell him to come back in 6 years. dont worry about it, im sure it wont be the first time.

He’s dating my best friend now and he told me to kms because I told him to stop threatening to SA my little sister and my now ex best friend took his side

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by Ilikehellokitty

He’s dating my best friend now and he told me to kms because I told him to stop threatening to SA my little sister and my now ex best friend took his side

Your best friend thought it was fine for him to threaten SA?

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by Admit-One

Your best friend thought it was fine for him to threaten SA?

She claims he’s joking so it’s not bad

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by Ilikehellokitty

She claims he’s joking so it’s not bad

She thinks it’s okay to joke about SA?

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by Admit-One

She thinks it’s okay to joke about SA?

Yea

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