Life

why is life hard ?

Reply 1

Hi. Honestly I don’t know. But it will get to a place where it won’t feel that hard anymore - when you can look back at this and be proud you got through it. Keep going 😊

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

i have a lot on my mind and it is overwhelming but thank you for your encourage to keep going

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

I have lot going on in my mind as for one - i am stressed about my grades for a levels as what if i went badly and got bad grades and also i a last child to do my a levels in my family and my sibilings got a*s , as , bs and that puts a lot of pressure on me. also i miss my mum very much , she died 1 year , 1 month and 11 days ago . and also i do not rememeber this but i have somewhat promised my mum before she died that i would get as in my a levels and that puts pressure on me . also i feel kind of lonely especially since my mums death as all my ssiters got married - 2 of them before my mum died and 1 of them got married after. i missed them . and my brother and dad does give me company . i need female company so when my sisters do visit i feel happy . i hope i did very good in my a levels.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post

by Anonymous

I have lot going on in my mind as for one - i am stressed about my grades for a levels as what if i went badly and got bad grades and also i a last child to do my a levels in my family and my sibilings got a*s , as , bs and that puts a lot of pressure on me. also i miss my mum very much , she died 1 year , 1 month and 11 days ago . and also i do not rememeber this but i have somewhat promised my mum before she died that i would get as in my a levels and that puts pressure on me . also i feel kind of lonely especially since my mums death as all my ssiters got married - 2 of them before my mum died and 1 of them got married after. i missed them . and my brother and dad does give me company . i need female company so when my sisters do visit i feel happy . i hope i did very good in my a levels.

i am sorry if it is too much

Reply 5

Has0909

4

i am so sorry you are going through a lot

Reply 6

Anonymous #3

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by Anonymous

i am sorry if it is too much

Hey, it is never too much. I understand, and I’m here if you want to talk. Just over a year ago, I tried to end it, and now I’ve just had heart surgery. As well as struggling with ocd, depression, anxiety, and the passing of my grandpa, I’ve always tried to keep going.

Life seems to enjoy throwing curveballs at me, but I genuinely believe that you never realise how strong you are until you have to dig deep for that strength. Being on the verge of life and death taught me to always look for the positives in each day. Even if it’s just a smile, a correct question at school, or a hug from someone.

When it comes down to it, as long as you give your best in everything, you can never ask for more from yourself. You can only do what you can - and that is enough, you are enough! It will be okay. Just keep going, minute after minute, day after day.

Take it from someone who has been there - one day in the future, hopefully soon, you will be so happy that you kept going and didn’t give up, and so proud of everything you have achieved despite your circumstances.

You’ve got this 🫶

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

i just feel like a failure

Reply 8

Anonymous #3

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by Anonymous

i just feel like a failure

No, don’t feel like that. I used too aswell, but then I realised that if I was my friend talking to myself, I would be so proud of myself for everything I have done and accomplished. So if I could do the same for a friend, why can’t I do the same for me?

That’s exactly how you have to think - you are NOT a failure - it might feel like it, but that’s just your mind playing tricks on you . It’s not tru