Nu?

I'm from a heavily religious Orthodox Jewish family. My father is a rabbi. I want to go out and get myself a higher education so I can get a well-paying job, but my parents want me to go to yeshiva (jewish talmudical college) and learn Torah all day. I'm fully religious and intend to stay that way, but my parents think my wanting to go to university means I'm on my way out of Judaism, and won't let me go! What do I do?

Good afternoon,
It sounds like you are in a tricky situation; sometimes, parents need to be shown what the outcome of university could do for you.
My parents were against the idea of university, and I had to explain to them I wouldn't be swayed by the partying aspect and that my desire for higher education was purely educational. This might help to sway your parents. Additionally, staying at home and commuting to university may help your parents by knowing you will be adhering to your religion.
You may need to compromise with your parents so they know you are not going against their wishes but are including your parents in your decision.
I hope this information helps, and you are able to convince your parents.
All the best,
Ella
Bsc Ecology