i told my boyfriend he should find an OF girl and he got mad, but am i wrong?

so my boyfriend and i have been together for about 6/7 months now and things are going really well
he’s exactly like me but just in male form, our only difference though is our sexual interests and every time he brings up his ‘desires’ i shut them down, he brought it up again today and i said “you should just go and find a girl from only fans, im sure they won’t mind looking like strippers at your beckon call”
he didn’t like that response, he said he hates when i “do this sh**”
for context, he messaged me about a party we’re going to this weekend and sent me a pic of lingerie and said i should wear something like that, i said absolutely not, don’t get me wrong i like dressing up, i like showing a bit of skin here and there but i don’t dress in outfits that are full on boobs in your face and butt almost hanging out.
he laughed and said okay then maybe behind closed doors for me, i said again, no. he asked why, and i said im just not into that, ill wear nice bras and underwear but the things he sends me and has in his head are like ann summers lingerie, if you know what i mean.
he said i should “want to make my man happy” and “look good for him”, i said you should think i look good no matter what?
he started getting defensive knowing where this was heading and said he obviously finds me attractive but this would be even better
i told him i don’t want to spend money playing dress up for like 10 seconds on something he’s just going to end up taking off, i just don’t get it and i never will, nothing against those who do, im just not that type of girl. (i also definitely don’t have the body nor breasts for anything like that)
i told him to stop getting his hopes up, that i’ll never be a victoria’s secret model or an only fans girl but if he wants one of those he can gladly help himself, i’ll just leave because clearly we’re different in that sense and for him to keep bringing it up it must be somewhat of a big deal.
he said im being stupid and went to bed, i know he’s upset with me but i don’t like the feeling of being his barbie doll he can tell what to wear for his own fun, i never deny him things under the covers, there’s no lack in that area, so the fact he’s still clearly not satisfied because i’m not wearing lace from head to toe just makes me feel small if that makes sense.
so for that i feel justified in what i said, but maybe i took it too far? i don’t know.