i wish i got laid whilst i was in sixth form

then i would have more confidence

instead im a 19yo virgin who never even kissed a girl

its so over

Reply 1

no it's not over?? like how is getting laid even a priority 😭
get your job or degree or whatever, then consider a serious relationship. meaningless sex is hardly all it's glorified to be...

Reply 2

affordable-mount

Original post

by elareare

no it's not over?? like how is getting laid even a priority 😭
get your job or degree or whatever, then consider a serious relationship. meaningless sex is hardly all it's glorified to be...

im 19 and never even kissed a girl, it.couldnt be more over

Reply 3

elareare

Original post

by affordable-mount

im 19 and never even kissed a girl, it.couldnt be more over

oh look, it ✨doesn't matter✨...
in many eyes it's a good thing to not have had useless teen relationships anyway

teenage love isn't all it's hyped up to be. mainly because teen relationships tend to last about 6 months max...
focus on stuff that's important, like your job, education, religion (if you are religious), and you'll find genuine love that's more than just about ticking the boxes of (kissing ✅ sex ✅)

and nice girls won't mind, so long as you're not some kind of incel

Reply 4

Dunnig Kruger

The world's foremost expert on meeting women, interacting with them and turning them into sexual partners lost his virginity when he was 21!

It's not a lack of confidence that's holding you back. It's a lack of competence.
If you're on the back of a motor-cycle, would you rather be with someone that's confident or competent?

It doesn't make sense to blame your lack of success on a lack of confidence. There will be some other reason that's holding you back. Or combination of reasons.
Getting to the bottom of them, solving this Mystery will allow you to either fix things so that you get the success you crave or help you to accept your lot in life.

Women can be very tolerant with men that lack confidence and lack experience. As long as the man isn't combining this with being heavy, having poor levels of mental and emotional strength.
A lack of confidence with a lack of experience, combined with the man being light-hearted and displaying good amounts of mental and emotional strength is fine.