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should i lose my virginity

affordable-mount

im 19 and still a virgin, i think i should lose my virginity before i start trying to date

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Reply 1

anosmianAcrimony

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Yes I think you should lose it. I lost mine at 18 and tbh I'm kind of glad it's over like I got it out of the way. How do you plan on loosing it if you don't mind me asking?

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

No, best to date and meet someone who you click with and feel comfortable with and then let it happen. I know it feels like a big deal but if you are with someone who respects you then it so much better for you mentally and emotionally. So unless you are planning on lots of partners/one night stands I I would say If you do it just to get it out of the way you may end up feel a bit ashamed. So hang in there and wait until you meet someone you click with rather than just picking a random someone.

Reply 4

Dunnig Kruger

Nah, don't lose your virginity to an affordable mount.

Focus instead on getting better at man to woman social skills. This will probably involve making one or more tweaks to the inner you, so that better man to woman social skills come out naturally.

Reply 5

Adz2042

Many people regret this approach when it comes to the whole 'virgin' status. They want to lose it before university, to be seen as 'i have experience'. My advice (whether you take it or not), is to find someone who is happy in your prescence, who is comfortable and is okay with you being a virgin, and when you date, have a relationship etc, is okay with letting things naturally progress that way. Rushing is bad. Taking your time is good.

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Anonymous #3

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by affordable-mount

im 19 and still a virgin, i think i should lose my virginity before i start trying to date

Yes i lost mine at 13

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affordable-mount

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by Anonymous

Yes I think you should lose it. I lost mine at 18 and tbh I'm kind of glad it's over like I got it out of the way. How do you plan on loosing it if you don't mind me asking?

title was changed i asked originally should i lose it to a hooker

im probably unattractive given i get zero attention from girls so idk maybe paying for it is the only way

Reply 8

Dunnig Kruger

You can do this!

You can become attractive to women.

Sex with someone that adores you and whom you love is so much better than with someone that you've hired.
It's an ego boost in the context of love. It's an ego reducer in the context of paid for.

Reply 9

Quady

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by Dunnig Kruger

You can do this!
You can become attractive to women.
Sex with someone that adores you and whom you love is so much better than with someone that you've hired.
It's an ego boost in the context of love. It's an ego reducer in the context of paid for.

Have you hired someone for sex before?

Reply 10

Anonymous #4

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by Anonymous

Yes i lost mine at 13

You’re a victim

Reply 11

Quady

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by Anonymous

You’re a victim

A victim of whom Anon?

Reply 12

MaoiPol-Pot

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by affordable-mount

im 19 and still a virgin, i think i should lose my virginity before i start trying to date

loosing it to someone you pay money for because you think think your unattractive is a poor way to go. doing that will only prove to yourself that you couldn't do it in a more dignified way with someone who you feel a connection with. I recommend getting better at man to woman skills and working on yourself and try to date.

Reply 13

anonomouse888

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by affordable-mount

im 19 and still a virgin, i think i should lose my virginity before i start trying to date

virginity is a social construct and sex work preys on vulnerable people, definitely wait. you will have the chance to meet lots of people at university and if you don't try to force anything im sure something will happen.

Reply 14

Zarek

Work on the dating. The pleasure of sex is about someone being enthusiastic to do it with you. It’s unlikely to be a good experience and sex work is by and large exploration of vulnerable women too

Reply 15

Wired_1800

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by affordable-mount

im 19 and still a virgin, i think i should lose my virginity before i start trying to date

If you are a lad, yes. If a woman, no. Good luck

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affordable-mount

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by Wired_1800

If you are a lad, yes. If a woman, no. Good luck

im male should i just pay for it at this point

Reply 17

Crazy Jamie

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by Wired_1800

If you are a lad, yes. If a woman, no. Good luck

I genuinely fear the can of worms that I'm about to open, but why the difference?

Reply 18

Crazy Jamie

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by affordable-mount

im male should i just pay for it at this point

No, because the fact of being a virgin really doesn't mean anything. The point is not to do it for the sake of it. It's an experience. It's fun. Do it with someone you like and who likes you. It doesn't really matter how long it takes for you to find yourself in that situation. But paying for it is just using money to get rid of a label that doesn't matter in the first place, and it'll bring you no closer to actually doing it with someone who consents for reasons other than money.

Reply 19

Quady

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by anonomouse888

On the off chance that you are being serious of course I don't take any superiority from this. It's a fact. Normal distribution exists in every category including physical and mental strength. I'm disabled myself and were my situation different I could be at risk myself. Do you not believe the fact that younger people (sometimes kids) make up a larger proportion of the sex work industry because of this fact. The industry preys on these vulnerable people.

I believe the fact that younger people make up a larger proportion of the sex work industry is because their likely earnings are higher than older people in sex work and their likely earnings outside of sex work are lower than older people.