Advice on finishing the job off
I am currently 20M. So since I was young, whenever I've wanted to pleasure myself I've done what's known as prone masturbation, where i lie face forward and continuously press my penis down. While doing this I would often also not become erect. Around a normal age, 10/11 I started to also *** doing this, while still not being erect. I believe this may be a bit more common for younger children when they first start to know what their body parts do, however I didn't stop doing this, and continued to do it as my main way of pleasuring myself all throughout my teenage years. Therefore, I lack experience on pulling my foreskin back, and I find the area beneath my foreskin sensitive to touch. I have been in a relationship with a girl for just over a year now, and at first due to lack of experience I had sexual troubles, initially with fitting it in but now the issue is I have been unable to finish off the job. I also have anxieties while doing it to the point where I try to make sure my foreskin doesn't pull back while I do it as it would be sensitive and hurt otherwise. My girlfriend has been really good about it and tries to gently encourage me but I struggle, and I can sometimes seem avoidant to sexual activities because of anxiety surrounding this, even though I just want to have a normal sex life like the majority of other people. I'm not sure whether I will need to see a doctor or anything or if there's anything I should try, or if prone masturbation for too long has messed me up(I might add that I have stopped doing this for the past 7 months now). I also do sometimes struggle with keeping elections, although I do take viagra on occasion which does help. We do enjoy having sex, it just gets annoying because I dont ever ***. Really appreciate any responses to this.
Reply 1
Have you tried any lubricant? That can help with soreness.
Reply 2
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by AnonymousHave you tried any lubricant? That can help with soreness.
I haven't yet but I have thought about that and will give it a go
Reply 3
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by AnonymousI haven't yet but I have thought about that and will give it a go
How often do you masturbate the 'normal' way? Do you ever let your girlfriend do it so you get used to the feeling of other people doing it. Its good that she's supportive 😀
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