Red flag or green flag?
One of my close friends wanted me to loyalty test her boyfriend while she was gone for the week. I asked her if she wanted me to say it out of nowhere or just give him hints and she said she wanted me to give him hints I was “ into him” while she acted like she didn’t notice. But of course this guy was and idiot and didnt get it even though a blind person could see it. So yesterday I “ confessed “ to him and at first he just kept saying it was a prank and when I convinced him it was not he said he’s always has been into me but did not wanna cheat so he said if they break up I could be with him. I was genuinely shocked he actually liked me because I only see him as an annoying little brother. He’s 2 years younger than me and I’m 14 so I felt like that was just so weird even if he wasent dating anyone and I’m not sure if this is a green flag or a red flag.
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Reply 1
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by AnonymousOne of my close friends wanted me to loyalty test her boyfriend while she was gone for the week. I asked her if she wanted me to say it out of nowhere or just give him hints and she said she wanted me to give him hints I was “ into him” while she acted like she didn’t notice. But of course this guy was and idiot and didnt get it even though a blind person could see it. So yesterday I “ confessed “ to him and at first he just kept saying it was a prank and when I convinced him it was not he said he’s always has been into me but did not wanna cheat so he said if they break up I could be with him. I was genuinely shocked he actually liked me because I only see him as an annoying little brother. He’s 2 years younger than me and I’m 14 so I felt like that was just so weird even if he wasent dating anyone and I’m not sure if this is a green flag or a red flag.
Both you and your friend are red flags.
Reply 2
You propositioned a 12 year old?
Reply 3
My friend asked me to loyalty test her bf not like I actually want him.
Reply 4
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by ageshallnotBoth you and your friend are red flags.
Reply 5
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by AnonymousHow I’m just doing a favor 🤷*♂️
Very creepy.
Reply 6
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by AnonymousHow I’m just doing a favor 🤷*♂️
It was an entirely inappropriate thing for her to ask you to do and for you to agree to do. You should have refused.
Reply 7
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by AnonymousOne of my close friends wanted me to loyalty test her boyfriend while she was gone for the week. I asked her if she wanted me to say it out of nowhere or just give him hints and she said she wanted me to give him hints I was “ into him” while she acted like she didn’t notice. But of course this guy was and idiot and didnt get it even though a blind person could see it. So yesterday I “ confessed “ to him and at first he just kept saying it was a prank and when I convinced him it was not he said he’s always has been into me but did not wanna cheat so he said if they break up I could be with him. I was genuinely shocked he actually liked me because I only see him as an annoying little brother. He’s 2 years younger than me and I’m 14 so I felt like that was just so weird even if he wasent dating anyone and I’m not sure if this is a green flag or a red flag.
Idk in my eyes it a red flag just cause he’s like 2 years younger than you and the fact that he said if they break up you could be with him….. 🤨smth abt that doesn’t sit right with me (thats just me tho ) and also why y’all hating on her she just did a favor for her friend 🤔 what wrong with that
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by AnonymousIdk in my eyes it a red flag just cause he’s like 2 years younger than you and the fact that he said if they break up you could be with him….. 🤨smth abt that doesn’t sit right with me (thats just me tho ) and also why y’all hating on her she just did a favor for her friend 🤔 what wrong with that
Because the favour involves being deceitful and basically playing games with people's feelings. definitely deserves some shade.
Reply 9
For a 12 year old he has said very concerning things…
Reply 10
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by AnonymousFor a 12 year old he has said very concerning things…
Reply 11
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by AnonymousOne of my close friends wanted me to loyalty test her boyfriend while she was gone for the week. I asked her if she wanted me to say it out of nowhere or just give him hints and she said she wanted me to give him hints I was “ into him” while she acted like she didn’t notice. But of course this guy was and idiot and didnt get it even though a blind person could see it. So yesterday I “ confessed “ to him and at first he just kept saying it was a prank and when I convinced him it was not he said he’s always has been into me but did not wanna cheat so he said if they break up I could be with him. I was genuinely shocked he actually liked me because I only see him as an annoying little brother. He’s 2 years younger than me and I’m 14 so I felt like that was just so weird even if he wasent dating anyone and I’m not sure if this is a green flag or a red flag.
why the heck is your friend dating a 12 year old?!
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by AnonymousFor a 12 year old he has said very concerning things…
He actually didn't. He didn't respond at all to your initial advances and then didn't believe you, so he read the situation perfectly both times. It's only after you "confessed" your feelings to him that he told you his feelings but even then he made it clear that he wouldn't cheat. Ending a relationship because you want to be in a relationship with someone else more is a perfectly normal thing to do. And you only got that far because you, a 14 year old girl, persistently baited a 12 year old boy. I do hesitate to judge you too harshly because you're only 14 and undoubtedly very immature yourself, but you and your friend are absolutely in the wrong here.
Reply 13
Is this the 12 year old from another thread who has a laugh about sexual assault?
Reply 14
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by Admit-OneIs this the 12 year old from another thread who has a laugh about sexual assault?
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by Anonymous👍👍👍👍👍
So why does anyone need to loyalty test him? We already know he’s a juvenile little twerp not worth anyone’s time.
And why on earth did you feel comfortable confessing fake feelings for someone who joked about SA?
Think you need to reflect on why you’re getting involved with this. You choose where your energy goes, regardless of the bad decisions made by your friends.
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by Anonymous👍👍👍👍👍
If the concerning things are from other incidents, those were probably good enough reason for your friend to break up with him. It still didn't justify what happened in this thread. If you're going to judge other people for their actions, you need to take responsibility for yours.
Reply 17
If people are wondering about the history of this one, (okay to link as the thread starter has admitted that it is one and the same person):
(Should warn that this thread has several mentions of sexual assault)
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7600922
(Should warn that this thread has several mentions of sexual assault)
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7600922
Reply 18
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by Admit-OneIf people are wondering about the history of this one, (okay to link as the thread starter has admitted that it is one and the same person):
(Should warn that this thread has several mentions of sexual assault)
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7600922
(Should warn that this thread has several mentions of sexual assault)
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7600922
horrifying.
Reply 19
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by ibelieve-icanflyhorrifying.
Yea honestly he’s done and said way worse
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