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How do I find love

I'm 29 still single never been in a relationship

I feel like I'm never going to get a girl just recently got rejected

I've never truly experienced love

Reply 1

Maybe you should start with a friendly conversation? Not all people are lucky about all this chemistry...

Reply 2

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by nadya_svetlova
Maybe you should start with a friendly conversation? Not all people are lucky about all this chemistry...


The girl who I recently met came onto me she started the convo. I made my move too late and after that it's been a bit awkward. I still see her though.

There is another girl who im into but they both know each other.

So I'm not sure who to make a Move on

Reply 3

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by Anonymous
I'm 29 still single never been in a relationship
I feel like I'm never going to get a girl just recently got rejected
I've never truly experienced love

blud if ur 29 I feel like messaging the student room is not gonna help u that much 😭🙏🏿

Reply 4

It'll happen

Reply 5

Aim to get rejected by an average of at least 1 woman per day.
There might be days when you get 0 rejections. And then you go to a social venue and get rejected by 5.

Aim to learn from your rejections.

Aim to get competent at meeting women and thinking, speaking, behaving in attractive ways.
Genuinely attractive ways that actually work. Not surface logic / socially conditioned ways that don't work well.
There's leading dating coaches that give advice for free on youtube on how to do this.

One feature that attractive guys have is that they don't mind rejection. As in they don't have a negative emotional reaction to it. They either have no emotional reaction or they laugh about it and find it amusing.

Reply 6

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by Dunnig Kruger
Aim to get rejected by an average of at least 1 woman per day.
There might be days when you get 0 rejections. And then you go to a social venue and get rejected by 5.
Aim to learn from your rejections.
Aim to get competent at meeting women and thinking, speaking, behaving in attractive ways.
Genuinely attractive ways that actually work. Not surface logic / socially conditioned ways that don't work well.
There's leading dating coaches that give advice for free on youtube on how to do this.
One feature that attractive guys have is that they don't mind rejection. As in they don't have a negative emotional reaction to it. They either have no emotional reaction or they laugh about it and find it amusing.

what if you're like me and have never and will never be rejected by a woman? (I only go for men)

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