How to get a Muslim boyfriend

bruh Muslims aren’t meant to date at all lol wtf had to do a double take reading that

ooh I see but then what about courting is that allowed or friendship to get to know someone better?

I’m really attracted to Arab and Middle Eastern men and I would like to get a boyfriend from that type of ethnicity so maybe North African, Pakistani, Moroccan etc. I live in London and I’m not Muslim myself but I have recently been thinking about the potential of converting in the future also I am really in love with Muslim culture and different celebrations like Eid al fitr and the Arabic language and generally the whole culture. So how do I go about meeting these types of guys? My university does have a North African society but I’m not North African myself so would find it a bit awkward myself. I have Muslim female friends but don’t know of any young Muslim males

in Islam really it’s lowk not allowed for like opposite genders to talk at all really but ik ppl aren’t really that strict on that. You said u were interested in converting but I would say if you genuinely want to find a good Muslim man w faith I think you should convert and try getting your friends to set u up for marriage and inshallah u can find a good man for you

Yh that's another good point that some people aren't as strict so you might get away with being friends with them first and so on to get to know them better

in Islam really it’s lowk not allowed for like opposite genders to talk at all really but ik ppl aren’t really that strict on that. You said u were interested in converting but I would say if you genuinely want to find a good Muslim man w faith I think you should convert and try getting your friends to set u up for marriage and inshallah u can find a good man for you

Your best bet would be to meet someone at uni by the sounds of it or maybe meet someone through one of your female muslim friends. You said you were considering converting to islam in the future so if you were to then you would find it easier to find muslim guys because as the other person on here said we (I'm also a muslim guy) don't date due to religious reasons so when you are getting to know someone for marriage a mahrem has to be present so in your case a mahrem would have to be like the guys mum or sister. So yh if you were to become muslim then it would be a lot easier since you could go to the mosque and meet people who have brothers or sons your age or just in general the community would know you're interested in getting married. But ofc no one can force you to convert so considering your current circumstance your best bet would just be trying to meet a guy at uni. I hope that helps and if you have any more questions feel free to ask

Yh that's another good point that some people aren't as strict so you might get away with being friends with them first and so on to get to know them better

I am really interested in Islam and I started learning Arabic a few days ago. How do I open up to my Muslim female friends about wanting to date a good Muslim man like I’m worried they will think I’m culturally appropriating etc but I have opened up to them that I am interested in the Islamic faith and culture. I’ve also had many positive relations with Muslim people coincidentally since coming to uni and also during through sixth form

Yes I think I’ll just have to open up to my Muslim friends and maybe ask them questions about how they plan on meeting someone because also I know a look of women who come from desi families have pre arranged marriages. Ah okay that makes a lot of sense now. So can the mahrem be the boys father or the leader of the mosque that you attend or does it have to be a female relative that recommends him to you for marriage?
also sorry to be asking so many questions but how would I go about approaching a Muslim guy I see/ know of in uni? bc atm I don’t really know any and my course is females mostly ( I’m studying education)

yh I know of a few Muslim girls in uni though who may be seen to be ‘haram’ excuse me if this sounds offensive to anyone but what I mean is like they dress in short dresses and used to go clubbing out with guys and stuff so I know that some people aren’t as strict but having said that idk what their prospects of marriage will be with all that activity