red flag so i dumped him

sooo he started pmo-ing bc apparently i love my chinese boys more than him
first off- theyre korean . get it right
second of all- imagine being threatened by people who dont even know i exist yet?? embarrassing
he kept saying if i really loved him id tone it down like no my interests are #1
also he wouldnt even tell me what country hes from?? just asian sir what does that even mean
i had to block 3 alt accounts already desperate much
anyway my parents are happy he’s gone and i got my phone back sooo win for me

sounds like some much needed forward progress; well done

Yes go and enjoy your life, there are many aspects to life not only relationships matter. I think there is a bit of a pandemic when it comes to toxic beahviour which many people seem to consdiering normal. I do not think it is normal at all and tbh i would personally stay as far away from it as you can as the disadvantages far outweigh any advantages

sooo he started pmo-ing bc apparently i love my chinese boys more than him
first off- theyre korean . get it right
second of all- imagine being threatened by people who dont even know i exist yet?? embarrassing
he kept saying if i really loved him id tone it down like no my interests are #1
also he wouldnt even tell me what country hes from?? just asian sir what does that even mean
i had to block 3 alt accounts already desperate much
anyway my parents are happy he’s gone and i got my phone back sooo win for me

About the first part. You shouldn't be obsessing over celebrities as if you love them or really like them like a friend. Its sad, especially when your looking for a relationship. You can like celebrities but not love them and also talk about them and obsess with them and comment on their pictures etc.

sounds exhausting just reading about these sorts of unhealthy relationships tbh

It’s great to have your interests! Good job in putting you first. I don’t see anything wrong with loving celebrities as long as it’s not causing you or anyone else harm. So if you enjoy K-Pop, enjoy it! I remember enjoying them when I was much younger. It’s fun to fan over different groups and feeling seen in media.

tysm it honestly means a lot bc for a while i started questioning myself like maybe i was being too much or weird for caring about it this much but now i see it was never the interest that was the problem💗

Don’t ever doubt yourself. I love watching shows that I used to watch when I was younger and sometimes draw and write about them. It’s like having a poster of your favourite band in your room. It’s your space and your interests, so why does it matter how other people feel about it!

He seems quite unreasonable and quite the desperate fellow. Good Job.

No longer wish to go to Korea now?

i still want to go to korea him living there was never the motivation- just a bonus
i do believe that i will end up in korea in a few weeks

If you rich enough sure