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Would I enjoy Durham

I've just started visiting unis so this isn't urgent or anything but wanted to get some insight. I haven't got my predicted grades yet but thinking I'll get around A*AA or A*A*A and I want to study law.

I visited Durham last week and really liked it as I liked the college system, the town was lovely and the students all seemed friendly. Since then, though, I've been doing some research and have come across some stuff which has put me off a bit. 1. Apparently there's not much going on there. I don't mind if its not got a crazy amount of clubs or anything but I do want to have a good social life and go out a decent amount (especially to gigs etc). Has this been exaggerated as when I was there they seemed to have a lot of bars and the students were all saying good stuff about the social aspects of the uni??
Also a family friends son apparently transferred as he found there was nothing to do there.
2. I've read really mixed things on the issues with classism/ misogyny. I go to a state school in London so was wondering if I'd have any issues with this or if it's just the same as other unis. Also personally when I was at Bristol the other students visiting seemed to give me more of a private school vibe than at Durham but didn't really talk to them so can't really tell.

I would be really grateful if anyone has any opinions on this or any other unis you would recommend for me as I'd like an older traditional uni but with things to do socially as well. (Not sure if the perfect mix between that exists though). Thanks x

Reply 1

My son has just finished his first year at Durham and has found lots to do, lots of activities through college and college bars but also just enjoying the nightclubs, it’s def not nightlife of other big cities but he enjoys the closeness of the small city. His friends are a mix from state and private schools and that’s really not a big thing, though he is in a hill college, maybe different in Bailey colleges, though he’s met a couple of people from Hatfield and they’ve been lovely too. I think in all unis you can have some class issue but you tend to find a friend group that will fit you and at the end of the day that’s all you need.
Sorry I can’t help with other uni insights. Good luck with your choices, it’s an exciting time.

Reply 2

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by Anonymous
My son has just finished his first year at Durham and has found lots to do, lots of activities through college and college bars but also just enjoying the nightclubs, it’s def not nightlife of other big cities but he enjoys the closeness of the small city. His friends are a mix from state and private schools and that’s really not a big thing, though he is in a hill college, maybe different in Bailey colleges, though he’s met a couple of people from Hatfield and they’ve been lovely too. I think in all unis you can have some class issue but you tend to find a friend group that will fit you and at the end of the day that’s all you need.
Sorry I can’t help with other uni insights. Good luck with your choices, it’s an exciting time.


Thank you so much this is really helpful <3

Reply 3

This piece is a few years old but I get the impression that not much has changed - "a number of students come to Durham with a sense of entitlement that can lead to patronising or disrespectful behaviour, and an elitism which drives social class divisions."
Durham University vows to 'do better' after report reveals lack of diversity and elitism at institute | Chronicle Live

Reply 4

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by Anonymous
I've just started visiting unis so this isn't urgent or anything but wanted to get some insight. I haven't got my predicted grades yet but thinking I'll get around A*AA or A*A*A and I want to study law.
I visited Durham last week and really liked it as I liked the college system, the town was lovely and the students all seemed friendly. Since then, though, I've been doing some research and have come across some stuff which has put me off a bit. 1. Apparently there's not much going on there. I don't mind if its not got a crazy amount of clubs or anything but I do want to have a good social life and go out a decent amount (especially to gigs etc). Has this been exaggerated as when I was there they seemed to have a lot of bars and the students were all saying good stuff about the social aspects of the uni??
Also a family friends son apparently transferred as he found there was nothing to do there.
2. I've read really mixed things on the issues with classism/ misogyny. I go to a state school in London so was wondering if I'd have any issues with this or if it's just the same as other unis. Also personally when I was at Bristol the other students visiting seemed to give me more of a private school vibe than at Durham but didn't really talk to them so can't really tell.
I would be really grateful if anyone has any opinions on this or any other unis you would recommend for me as I'd like an older traditional uni but with things to do socially as well. (Not sure if the perfect mix between that exists though). Thanks x

Note that classism isn’t one dimensional- a large proportion of those criticising the ‘classism’ of Durham students hold classist preconceptions themselves, yet for these people of more privileged backgrounds.

Naturally, this causes some anecdotal exaggerations you refer to hearing about. For those who go with a narrow mind, having privilege is synonymous with a classist attitude, yet for most, this doesn’t hold true; an impression you may have received at the open day.

At any RG, particularly for law, there will be a diverse range of people, many of whom are from wealthier backgrounds, and others not, yet almost all will most likely be friendly.

As for the social life in Durham, it’s a small area, yet also a 15 minute train from Newcastle, which has an active social scene. You will gain tradition at Durham, and a social life at Durham, and Newcastle, including gigs.

Traditional ‘Older’ Unis in England for law would be Oxbridge, Durham and Bristol, and Edinburgh for Scotland, although they only offer Scots Law, which won’t qualify you in England&Wales. For social Unis, perhaps add Manchester and consider the London universities.
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Reply 5

If you like Oxbridge rejects with a strange combination of entitlement and a chip on their shoulder, you should love Durham.

Reply 6

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by Anonymous
If you like Oxbridge rejects with a strange combination of entitlement and a chip on their shoulder, you should love Durham.

Some supporting evidence for my comment:

Reply 7

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by JE9
Note that classism isn’t one dimensional- a large proportion of those criticising the ‘classism’ of Durham students hold classist preconceptions themselves, yet for these people of more privileged backgrounds.
Naturally, this causes some anecdotal exaggerations you refer to hearing about. For those who go with a narrow mind, having privilege is synonymous with a classist attitude, yet for most, this doesn’t hold true; an impression you may have received at the open day.
At any RG, particularly for law, there will be a diverse range of people, many of whom are from wealthier backgrounds, and others not, yet almost all will most likely be friendly.
As for the social life in Durham, it’s a small area, yet also a 15 minute train from Newcastle, which has an active social scene. You will gain tradition at Durham, and a social life at Durham, and Newcastle, including gigs.
Traditional ‘Older’ Unis in England for law would be Oxbridge, Durham and Bristol, and Edinburgh for Scotland, although they only offer Scots Law, which won’t qualify you in England&Wales. For social Unis, perhaps add Manchester and consider the London universities.


Yeah this is a really good point thank you so much x

Reply 8

Original post
by Anonymous
I've just started visiting unis so this isn't urgent or anything but wanted to get some insight. I haven't got my predicted grades yet but thinking I'll get around A*AA or A*A*A and I want to study law.
I visited Durham last week and really liked it as I liked the college system, the town was lovely and the students all seemed friendly. Since then, though, I've been doing some research and have come across some stuff which has put me off a bit. 1. Apparently there's not much going on there. I don't mind if its not got a crazy amount of clubs or anything but I do want to have a good social life and go out a decent amount (especially to gigs etc). Has this been exaggerated as when I was there they seemed to have a lot of bars and the students were all saying good stuff about the social aspects of the uni??
Also a family friends son apparently transferred as he found there was nothing to do there.
2. I've read really mixed things on the issues with classism/ misogyny. I go to a state school in London so was wondering if I'd have any issues with this or if it's just the same as other unis. Also personally when I was at Bristol the other students visiting seemed to give me more of a private school vibe than at Durham but didn't really talk to them so can't really tell.
I would be really grateful if anyone has any opinions on this or any other unis you would recommend for me as I'd like an older traditional uni but with things to do socially as well. (Not sure if the perfect mix between that exists though). Thanks x

When I was applying to Durham, I had the exact same concerns you did about racism and discrimination, and whilst it is true that Durham has a lot of ongoing work to do to make it a truly accepting and diverse university, it also has made a lot of progress. Whilst I can't speak on behalf of the experience of women and other minorities, I can say that as a POC Durham has been a lot more accepting than its often portrayed with working-class, female and minority students taking up more and more space within this university's story. We definitely are here and we are part of Durham's achievements, and you will be too if you're up for it. I am happy to hear that you really loved Durham (and so did I when I was first looking at the university) and I am confident that you will love your time here if you join us. It is important that people like us join this university so that we can define its future, and avoid making Durham's stereotypes self-prophesying.

As for the night life, I think the charm of Durham's night life is that it is more for going out with friends and having a good time. Some of my favourite memories in Durham is going out with my friends and friends-of-friends to Babs, Fabs or the (in)famous Klutes and I think if you're in any way like me, you also would love it here in our student clubs (not to mention all the other stuff we have going on like balls and socials). If you want to go out in Durham, you definitely can!

Hope this helps :smile:
Lesath (DU Rep.)

Reply 9

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by Anonymous
My son has just finished his first year at Durham and has found lots to do, lots of activities through college and college bars but also just enjoying the nightclubs, it’s def not nightlife of other big cities but he enjoys the closeness of the small city. His friends are a mix from state and private schools and that’s really not a big thing, though he is in a hill college, maybe different in Bailey colleges, though he’s met a couple of people from Hatfield and they’ve been lovely too. I think in all unis you can have some class issue but you tend to find a friend group that will fit you and at the end of the day that’s all you need.
Sorry I can’t help with other uni insights. Good luck with your choices, it’s an exciting time.

Exactly the same circumstances here and very similar experience for my son. Plenty to do socially and more than enough people to make friends of any class if that is a big factor for you.

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