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The ugly girl who tries so hard

Hey it's today guys I'm going to tell you the story of me so like there was this boy at the water park and he was like are you a girl or a boy and I got so offended cuz of things that have happened in the past i started crying i'm getting mad at everybody but turns out he might have been autisticBut it's just cuz of things like that have happened in the past guys have called me ugly not guys that I liked of course not I never tell him when I like them because of boysAndYeah like I never tell anybodyAnd there was this kidAnonymousI'm not going to give out nameButIf he would make fun of me and then his cousin she told me that all he does is care about is himself and plus he was younger than meBut his cousin saidWhen we were on the bus she said he don't care anything about anybodyShe just cares about himself he cares about making himself feel better about himself which he is ugly as You know whatSoYeah and I saw like a bunch of other things on here about other peopleI'm going through different things I hope you guys like get better and I hope you guys likeFind your place in the world and I hopePeople like you for you cuzThat's what I'm trying to do make people like me for meAnd there's this girl that I used to know that I kind of still knowShe was an artist and she was like oh wellDon't make anyone get you down or don't let anyone get you down I meant to sayJust be yourself and you're pretty just the way you are your beautiful like you don't look at everybody else and be like oh yeah like they're pretty in the meanOh this person will like them more than me don't think that cuz I forgot like someone better than you like especially if you're dating the guy she's not worth it

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by LoL.2222222
Hey it's today guys I'm going to tell you the story of me so like there was this boy at the water park and he was like are you a girl or a boy and I got so offended cuz of things that have happened in the past i started crying i'm getting mad at everybody but turns out he might have been autisticBut it's just cuz of things like that have happened in the past guys have called me ugly not guys that I liked of course not I never tell him when I like them because of boysAndYeah like I never tell anybodyAnd there was this kidAnonymousI'm not going to give out nameButIf he would make fun of me and then his cousin she told me that all he does is care about is himself and plus he was younger than meBut his cousin saidWhen we were on the bus she said he don't care anything about anybodyShe just cares about himself he cares about making himself feel better about himself which he is ugly as You know whatSoYeah and I saw like a bunch of other things on here about other peopleI'm going through different things I hope you guys like get better and I hope you guys likeFind your place in the world and I hopePeople like you for you cuzThat's what I'm trying to do make people like me for meAnd there's this girl that I used to know that I kind of still knowShe was an artist and she was like oh wellDon't make anyone get you down or don't let anyone get you down I meant to sayJust be yourself and you're pretty just the way you are your beautiful like you don't look at everybody else and be like oh yeah like they're pretty in the meanOh this person will like them more than me don't think that cuz I forgot like someone better than you like especially if you're dating the guy she's not worth it

pls girl use some punctuation 🙏

Reply 3

just be your self bb😘

Reply 4

Hey guys don't hate on a girl that can't do punctuations. 😍

Reply 5

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by LoL.2222222
Hey it's today guys I'm going to tell you the story of me so like there was this boy at the water park and he was like are you a girl or a boy and I got so offended cuz of things that have happened in the past i started crying i'm getting mad at everybody but turns out he might have been autisticBut it's just cuz of things like that have happened in the past guys have called me ugly not guys that I liked of course not I never tell him when I like them because of boysAndYeah like I never tell anybodyAnd there was this kidAnonymousI'm not going to give out nameButIf he would make fun of me and then his cousin she told me that all he does is care about is himself and plus he was younger than meBut his cousin saidWhen we were on the bus she said he don't care anything about anybodyShe just cares about himself he cares about making himself feel better about himself which he is ugly as You know whatSoYeah and I saw like a bunch of other things on here about other peopleI'm going through different things I hope you guys like get better and I hope you guys likeFind your place in the world and I hopePeople like you for you cuzThat's what I'm trying to do make people like me for meAnd there's this girl that I used to know that I kind of still knowShe was an artist and she was like oh wellDon't make anyone get you down or don't let anyone get you down I meant to sayJust be yourself and you're pretty just the way you are your beautiful like you don't look at everybody else and be like oh yeah like they're pretty in the meanOh this person will like them more than me don't think that cuz I forgot like someone better than you like especially if you're dating the guy she's not worth it

Hi,

A friend of mine (he's a personal trainer, for context) has a theory... he believes there's no such thing as "Ugly" people, just lazy people. And TBF, he has a point; 99% of people can do something about their appearance if they really wanted to, and no, it's not all about spending hours killing yourself at the gym.

Basically, if you, yourself are happy with the way you look, then f*** what everyone else thinks. Rock your look with confidence and like you "own-it" (which technically you do) , and eventually people will like you for who / what you are (and yes, including that special someone, if that's what this is (really) all about 😉). On the other hand, if you're not happy with how you look, then try experimenting with different looks, fashion styles etc. and see what suits you and what you're comfortable in. You can go into most clothes shops and get one of the staff to pick out a few outfits they think will look good on you, take a selfie in the dressing room and see what your mates think... could also go to a beautician to see what hairstyle / make-up would best suit you.

Oh, and don't let peoples insults, name calling "cussing" etc. get to you; remember they are only words, and they'll only hurt you if you let them. Most name calling happens because people want to get a reaction from that person; therefore, if you can show that you don't care and that it doesn't have any effect on you, then (eventually) they'll get bored and find someone else to pick on. However, when you cry or lose your temper, that's the reaction they're looking for, so they'll continue with their persecution. I know it's easier said than done, but if you imagine you have an invisible shield or something, imagine that protecting you from the hurtful words lol.

Remember that old saying:- "Sticks and stones may brake my bones, but words will never hurt me"



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by Anonymous
Hey guys don't hate on a girl that can't do punctuations. 😍

The problem here is that due to the way it's written, it makes the story very difficult to follow. Although I can kinda guess where the full-stops, commas etc. should be, her whole post is technically one giant sentence (and that's a paragraph of 13-14 lines lol). It wouldn't surprise me if most of the people who wanted to help just gave up reading before even getting to the 1/2 way point. Personally, NGL, I did find it a bit tough to read and follow; however, I thought I'd try and persevere when I saw the post had been up for almost a week and no one (apart from yourself) tried to address the actual issue she was posting about, on the off-chance she comes back (cause I'm nice like that 😛)
With paragraph breaks for clarity.
Original post
by LoL.2222222
Hey, it's today, guys. I'm going to tell you the story of me. So like, there was this boy at the water park, and he was like, Are you a girl or a boy? And I got so offended, 'cause of things that have happened in the past. I started crying, I'm getting mad at everybody.

But turns out he might have been autistic. But it's just 'cause of things like that have happened in the past. Guys have called me ugly not guys that I liked, of course not. I never tell them when I like them. Because of boys.

And yeah, like, I never tell anybody.

And there was this kid. Anonymous. I'm not going to give out a name. But he would make fun of me, and then his cousin she told me that all he does is care about is himself. And plus, he was younger than me.

But his cousin said when we were on the bus, she said He don't care anything about anybody. He just cares about himself. He cares about making himself feel better about himself, which, he is ugly as you-know-what.

So yeah.

And I saw like a bunch of other things on here about other people. I'm going through different things. I hope you guys get better, and I hope you guys find your place in the world. And I hope people like you for you, 'cause that's what I'm trying to do make people like me for me.

And there's this girl that I used to know that I kind of still know. She was an artist, and she was like, Oh, well, don't make anyone get you down, or Don't let anyone get you down, I meant to say. Just be yourself, and you're pretty just the way you are. You're beautiful. Like, don't look at everybody else and be like, Oh yeah, they're pretty and mean, oh this person will like them more than me. Don't think that.

'Cause if a guy likes someone better than you like, especially if you're dating the guy she's not worth it.”

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by Admit-One
With paragraph breaks for clarity.

Interestingly, that's barely improved it. :lol:
(edited 7 months ago)

Reply 8

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by Admit-One
With paragraph breaks for clarity.
how is it still confusing af

Reply 9

Original post
by LoL.2222222
Hey it's today guys I'm going to tell you the story of me so like there was this boy at the water park and he was like are you a girl or a boy and I got so offended cuz of things that have happened in the past i started crying i'm getting mad at everybody but turns out he might have been autisticBut it's just cuz of things like that have happened in the past guys have called me ugly not guys that I liked of course not I never tell him when I like them because of boysAndYeah like I never tell anybodyAnd there was this kidAnonymousI'm not going to give out nameButIf he would make fun of me and then his cousin she told me that all he does is care about is himself and plus he was younger than meBut his cousin saidWhen we were on the bus she said he don't care anything about anybodyShe just cares about himself he cares about making himself feel better about himself which he is ugly as You know whatSoYeah and I saw like a bunch of other things on here about other peopleI'm going through different things I hope you guys like get better and I hope you guys likeFind your place in the world and I hopePeople like you for you cuzThat's what I'm trying to do make people like me for meAnd there's this girl that I used to know that I kind of still knowShe was an artist and she was like oh wellDon't make anyone get you down or don't let anyone get you down I meant to sayJust be yourself and you're pretty just the way you are your beautiful like you don't look at everybody else and be like oh yeah like they're pretty in the meanOh this person will like them more than me don't think that cuz I forgot like someone better than you like especially if you're dating the guy she's not worth it

Hello,

You are right about not comparing yourself to others; you certainly are not ugly. Attractiveness is all somewhat subjective. You are also right about not letting anyone get you down and getting people to like you for being you!

If you would like to talk about this further I would be happy to help.

Charlie
Law LLB Student
Original post
by Reality Check
Interestingly, that's barely improved it. :lol:

Original post
by Anonymous
how is it still confusing af

I must admit I haven't read it, but ChatGPT can come to our rescue!

"The speaker recounts a painful memory at a water park where a boy questioned their gender, triggering deep emotions tied to past experiences of being judged, bullied, and called ugly, particularly by boys. Though they later learned the boy might have been autistic, the incident reopened old wounds, reinforcing their habit of hiding feelings, especially romantic ones. They describe being mocked by another boy who, according to his cousin, was selfish and mean, which added to their hurt. Despite these challenges, the speaker shares hope and encouragement, inspired by a supportive girl who reminded them to stay true to themselves and recognize their own beauty. Ultimately, the message centers on self-acceptance, resilience, and the desire to be liked for who they truly are."

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by Admit-One
I must admit I haven't read it, but ChatGPT can come to our rescue!
"The speaker recounts a painful memory at a water park where a boy questioned their gender, triggering deep emotions tied to past experiences of being judged, bullied, and called ugly, particularly by boys. Though they later learned the boy might have been autistic, the incident reopened old wounds, reinforcing their habit of hiding feelings, especially romantic ones. They describe being mocked by another boy who, according to his cousin, was selfish and mean, which added to their hurt. Despite these challenges, the speaker shares hope and encouragement, inspired by a supportive girl who reminded them to stay true to themselves and recognize their own beauty. Ultimately, the message centers on self-acceptance, resilience, and the desire to be liked for who they truly are."

Sam Altman should be proud of himself in being able to develop something which can render that word vomit into something approaching intelligible.

Reply 12

Original post
by Admit-One
I must admit I haven't read it, but ChatGPT can come to our rescue!
"The speaker recounts a painful memory at a water park where a boy questioned their gender, triggering deep emotions tied to past experiences of being judged, bullied, and called ugly, particularly by boys. Though they later learned the boy might have been autistic, the incident reopened old wounds, reinforcing their habit of hiding feelings, especially romantic ones. They describe being mocked by another boy who, according to his cousin, was selfish and mean, which added to their hurt. Despite these challenges, the speaker shares hope and encouragement, inspired by a supportive girl who reminded them to stay true to themselves and recognize their own beauty. Ultimately, the message centers on self-acceptance, resilience, and the desire to be liked for who they truly are."

thank ur chat gpt for me, but i still dont understand why some things are typed up and posted on here instead of reddit

Reply 13

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by UoL Students
Hello,
You are right about not comparing yourself to others; you certainly are not ugly. Attractiveness is all somewhat subjective. You are also right about not letting anyone get you down and getting people to like you for being you!
If you would like to talk about this further I would be happy to help.
Charlie
Law LLB Student

yes

Reply 14

Hey it's today guys. I'm going to tell you the story of me. So like, there was this boy at the water park and he was like, are you a girl or a boy? And I got so offended cuz of things that have happened in the past. I started crying. I'm getting mad at everybody. But turns out he might have been autistic. But it's just cuz of things like that have happened in the past. Guys have called me ugly. Not guys that I liked, of course not. I never tell him when I like them because of boys. And yeah, like, I never tell anybody.

And there was this kid anonymous. I'm not going to give out name. But if he would make fun of me, and then his cousin, she told me that all he does is care about is himself. And plus, he was younger than me. But his cousin said when we were on the bus, she said he don't care anything about anybody. She just cares about himself. He cares about making himself feel better about himself, which he is ugly as you know what.

So yeah. And I saw like a bunch of other things on here about other people. I'm going through different things. I hope you guys like get better, and I hope you guys like find your place in the world. And I hope people like you for you. Cuz that's what I'm trying to do: make people like me for me.

And there's this girl that I used to know, that I kind of still know. She was an artist and she was like, oh well, don't make anyone get you down or don't let anyone get you down, I meant to say. Just be yourself and you're pretty just the way you are. You're beautiful. Like you don't look at everybody else and be like, oh yeah, like they're pretty, and then mean, oh this person will like them more than me. Don't think that cuz I forgot. Like someone better than you, like especially if you're dating the guy, she's not worth it.

Reply 15

You are worth more than you think you are. I think that the right person will come along but it requires patience. Of course there's issues deep within what your saying.

I want you try and believe in yourself im sure you are beautiful both inside and out. Your insecure I get that, I'm quite an insecure person but I did find someone when I almost gave up.

But the most important person is you being happy within yourself. I met someone who likes me for me after years of nothing. Please don't give up trying there is someone for you ❤️

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