first time meeting

hey everyone, tomorrow is going to be the first time meeting a guy (17) and im 16. we have been talking for about 20 days and we call almost all the time or whenever we can. we haven't really called today as I was out with my friends and he was at work. any who... im so nervous for tomorrow and ive told him that im nervous and I told him that he is going to run away as soon as he sees me but he said he wouldn't and even if I didn't look like what I do on FaceTime he would still talk to me as he like my personality. and like the only reason I said that is coz I think I needed some sort of reasurence that he will still talk to me. and he complements me all the time. any who, he asked me if he could hug me when I get of the train and I said ofc you can and that's not what im worried about. im more worried about what if its awkward and he thinks oh god what have I got myself into coz personally he is way above my league like 100000 miles above me coz hes just amazing and idk if he would still like me. I suppose im more worried about it being awkward.
so anyone got any tips to help get through the day or some good convo starters other than what's ur fav colour lol thanks

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hey everyone, tomorrow is going to be the first time meeting a guy (17) and im 16. we have been talking for about 20 days and we call almost all the time or whenever we can. we haven't really called today as I was out with my friends and he was at work. any who... im so nervous for tomorrow and ive told him that im nervous and I told him that he is going to run away as soon as he sees me but he said he wouldn't and even if I didn't look like what I do on FaceTime he would still talk to me as he like my personality. and like the only reason I said that is coz I think I needed some sort of reasurence that he will still talk to me. and he complements me all the time. any who, he asked me if he could hug me when I get of the train and I said ofc you can and that's not what im worried about. im more worried about what if its awkward and he thinks oh god what have I got myself into coz personally he is way above my league like 100000 miles above me coz hes just amazing and idk if he would still like me. I suppose im more worried about it being awkward.
so anyone got any tips to help get through the day or some good convo starters other than what's ur fav colour lol thanks

Hi there, are you 100% sure that this person is who you say they are, and does anyone else know that you plan on meeting this person, that you’ve not previously met before? Are you certain that this meeting is safe?

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by Anonymous

hey everyone, tomorrow is going to be the first time meeting a guy (17) and im 16. we have been talking for about 20 days and we call almost all the time or whenever we can. we haven't really called today as I was out with my friends and he was at work. any who... im so nervous for tomorrow and ive told him that im nervous and I told him that he is going to run away as soon as he sees me but he said he wouldn't and even if I didn't look like what I do on FaceTime he would still talk to me as he like my personality. and like the only reason I said that is coz I think I needed some sort of reasurence that he will still talk to me. and he complements me all the time. any who, he asked me if he could hug me when I get of the train and I said ofc you can and that's not what im worried about. im more worried about what if its awkward and he thinks oh god what have I got myself into coz personally he is way above my league like 100000 miles above me coz hes just amazing and idk if he would still like me. I suppose im more worried about it being awkward.
so anyone got any tips to help get through the day or some good convo starters other than what's ur fav colour lol thanks

Hi you are clearly a young teenager looking for a romantic relationship with someone you have barely known. 20 days is not a lot at all and its evident you want to be intimate in some way with "hugs". I think this isnt really a good idea to be meeting this quickly when meeting somebody you have just meet virtually. You are also worried about how he will take you, which I assume on appearance. You mention how you facetime all the time, so what would the issue be here? If so why are you asking for convo starters? You seem that you are just trying to be impressive way too much and that should answer your question. Instead of trying to please someone you barely know as you mention you should really value your friends more as you say you call him all the time. You should tell them about this guy you speak to and if you are meeting your parents should be informed. If you dont these things then you should go ahead with it. I was once this age but wasnt this dense to be in relationships. However you should do what you feel is best but I think this may head in the wrong direction.

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by Anonymous

hey everyone, tomorrow is going to be the first time meeting a guy (17) and im 16. we have been talking for about 20 days and we call almost all the time or whenever we can. we haven't really called today as I was out with my friends and he was at work. any who... im so nervous for tomorrow and ive told him that im nervous and I told him that he is going to run away as soon as he sees me but he said he wouldn't and even if I didn't look like what I do on FaceTime he would still talk to me as he like my personality. and like the only reason I said that is coz I think I needed some sort of reasurence that he will still talk to me. and he complements me all the time. any who, he asked me if he could hug me when I get of the train and I said ofc you can and that's not what im worried about. im more worried about what if its awkward and he thinks oh god what have I got myself into coz personally he is way above my league like 100000 miles above me coz hes just amazing and idk if he would still like me. I suppose im more worried about it being awkward.
so anyone got any tips to help get through the day or some good convo starters other than what's ur fav colour lol thanks

im assuming by now youd met him, so this advice will be meaningless. but you hopefully met up with him in a safe environment (best with other friends/family you know), in public and only in daytime. But it sounds lie youre going there yourself by train, so its out of the way for you. You need to put safety first in this situation.

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