My Boyfriend is going to a friends birthday party with other girls

My boyfriend is going out for his friends 21st with his 5 mates and 2 girls that are friends of the birthday boy. All his mates are single and we've been together 6 years. They are going bar hopping and then clubbing together and i'm not invited. I want him to go and have fun and he has reassured me that he will not direspect me but i'm seeing online everywhere that you should always invite your partner when clubbing with the opposite sex. I feel like i'm going crazy because i know he's only going for his mates to have a good time, and he would go regardless of if the girls went or not, but i'm seeing things telling me it's direspectful for him to go, knowing other girls are there and not inviting me?? Is it wrong?

Probably is. What if he gets drunk and has no awareness of what he’s doing…

He doesn't get drunk like that though, I personally can get smashed on a night out and would never cheat on my boyfriend lol, no amount of alochol is an excuse to cheat

If you’ve been together 6 years: and he’s already listened to/raised your possible concerns, then the likelihood of him doing anything silly is very low. He’s going out to spend time with friends, not go on the pull.
It’s not disrespectful for a partner to spend time with the opposite sex, or to go to things where you’re either not invited or just wouldn’t have a very good time.
I would ignore the insecure naysayers. You’re in a committed relationship.

Thanks, just needed my mind to be put at ease. We had a slight wobble at 16, when he disresepected me and ever since he's felt so guilty to the point he's not enjoyed life with his friends. We're 21 now and i fully forgive him, we were kids and he didn't necessarily cheat, but it's new for us to be going out partying without each other, and especially with the opposite sex. He's been very open with me about it and has made it clear he's just going for his mates birthday. I hate that people online say it's basically cheating and disrespectful that he's even going, but because it's new for me I don't know what to think.

True but this is clubbing. How likely is it though that it won’t happen..Alright I didn’t need to know that but okay…yeah but the after affects of getting drunk there’s several instances of where people can cheat 🫰🏼

Sounds like ur relationships holding both of u back

I go clubbing, not with a group of boys but obviously guys are there. Me and my mates go to dance at the end of the night and anyone that tries to hit on us we shut down immediately, no matter how drunk we are. I don't necessarily think it's the environment that causes cheating, but i understand your point that it can encourage it

Thanks, just needed my mind to be put at ease. We had a slight wobble at 16, when he disresepected me and ever since he's felt so guilty to the point he's not enjoyed life with his friends. We're 21 now and i fully forgive him, we were kids and he didn't necessarily cheat, but it's new for us to be going out partying without each other, and especially with the opposite sex. He's been very open with me about it and has made it clear he's just going for his mates birthday. I hate that people online say it's basically cheating and disrespectful that he's even going, but because it's new for me I don't know what to think.

It's been holding him back because of his own guilt. This is the first time he's going out with his mates and doing it for himself and not worrying about me. It just ****s with your head when the majority of people online say they would find it disrespectful and that it's lowkey cheating

It's been holding him back because of his own guilt. This is the first time he's going out with his mates and doing it for himself and not worrying about me. It just ****s with your head when the majority of people online say they would find it disrespectful and that it's lowkey cheating