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She hardly replies my text and calls, outside work, never want to hang out, go on date. Felt like i was bothering and feeling too needy, I stop texting or call. Recently she text me and ask to meet at her place, we had great sex. We texted for two days and now she is back to ignoring and also decline to hang out outside work. The feeling i kill came back, now am wondering if i was being weird, if i was texting too much. Help please

Reply 1

Original post
by Anonymous
She hardly replies my text and calls, outside work, never want to hang out, go on date. Felt like i was bothering and feeling too needy, I stop texting or call. Recently she text me and ask to meet at her place, we had great sex. We texted for two days and now she is back to ignoring and also decline to hang out outside work. The feeling i kill came back, now am wondering if i was being weird, if i was texting too much. Help please

Perhaps the sex wasn't great for her?

Reply 2

Original post
by Anonymous
She hardly replies my text and calls, outside work, never want to hang out, go on date. Felt like i was bothering and feeling too needy, I stop texting or call. Recently she text me and ask to meet at her place, we had great sex. We texted for two days and now she is back to ignoring and also decline to hang out outside work. The feeling i kill came back, now am wondering if i was being weird, if i was texting too much. Help please

In my eyes she seems to be using you. Have you tried telling or texting her exactly how you feel? If you havent you deff should, all girls appreciate ppl being direct. However, if you have tried to tell her and she isn't actively changing, than maybe you should try and move on now, or else it will hurt even later :smile:

Reply 3

Looks like she is only interested in you as a sex toy. If it is ok with you you can continue doing what you're doing. If you want something else, look elsewhere.

Reply 4

Original post
by Anonymous
She hardly replies my text and calls, outside work, never want to hang out, go on date. Felt like i was bothering and feeling too needy, I stop texting or call. Recently she text me and ask to meet at her place, we had great sex. We texted for two days and now she is back to ignoring and also decline to hang out outside work. The feeling i kill came back, now am wondering if i was being weird, if i was texting too much. Help please

She doesn't want a relationship with you, maybe the sex was a one off

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