Worried about returninb to uni

I know I’ve posted threads on here but in September I’ll be back for my final year but I’m really scared about returning due to a number of reasons
I’m scared to go back to uni in September after the experiences I’ve faced with other students who have treated me incredibly unfairly and it’s caused me a lot of grief and heartbreak through what’s gone on.
I get laughed at for being myself and it’s upsetting because they should know better than that. It makes me very upset seeing how others treat me and exclude me as I believe they do it because of a special characteristic I have and it’s appalling.
I wish people were nice to me and wouldn’t be nasty to me as I’ve done nothing wrong to anyone.
I have reported things because of how disgusting things were but I wish it would all stop. There are people who are on my side and I’m grateful for that support but I cannot get over the fact someone once made up falsehoods that I said this when it was something completely different and as a result people took it out on me when they don’t know the actual story. What had actually happened was that I was upset over something that had nothing to do with the club and they made it a lot worse by doing this to me when there was no need.
I’ve been asked incredibly inappropriate questions including regards to sexuality and if my child would have the same thing I supposedly have which I feel uncomfortable with and recently someone has got it to make misinformation about my identity.
I feel like all of this has came to a very bad point as I don’t know what I’ve done wrong to these people. I just wish these people understood and knew what they’ve done.
I’m really scared to return to uni because of this because I worry another incident would happen and I don’t know how I’d deal with it

I know I’ve posted threads on here but in September I’ll be back for my final year but I’m really scared about returning due to a number of reasons
I’m scared to go back to uni in September after the experiences I’ve faced with other students who have treated me incredibly unfairly and it’s caused me a lot of grief and heartbreak through what’s gone on.
I get laughed at for being myself and it’s upsetting because they should know better than that. It makes me very upset seeing how others treat me and exclude me as I believe they do it because of a special characteristic I have and it’s appalling.
I wish people were nice to me and wouldn’t be nasty to me as I’ve done nothing wrong to anyone.
I have reported things because of how disgusting things were but I wish it would all stop. There are people who are on my side and I’m grateful for that support but I cannot get over the fact someone once made up falsehoods that I said this when it was something completely different and as a result people took it out on me when they don’t know the actual story. What had actually happened was that I was upset over something that had nothing to do with the club and they made it a lot worse by doing this to me when there was no need.
I’ve been asked incredibly inappropriate questions including regards to sexuality and if my child would have the same thing I supposedly have which I feel uncomfortable with and recently someone has got it to make misinformation about my identity.
I feel like all of this has came to a very bad point as I don’t know what I’ve done wrong to these people. I just wish these people understood and knew what they’ve done.
I’m really scared to return to uni because of this because I worry another incident would happen and I don’t know how I’d deal with it

Hey,
I'm really sorry you're going through this. No one deserves to feel unsafe, isolated, or mistreated at university, especially not for simply being themselves. It takes a lot of courage to speak up about these kinds of experiences, and I hope you know that what you’re feeling is completely valid.
When university becomes a place of fear or distress because of how others have treated you, it’s incredibly difficult to feel motivated or secure about returning, especially in your final year when the pressure is already high. Being excluded, laughed at, or questioned in invasive ways because of a personal characteristic is not just unfair, it may also breach your university’s code of conduct and anti-discrimination policies.
It’s a good step that you’ve already reported the behaviour. Keep a record of everything, especially if anything else happens. If you haven't already, consider speaking with your university's wellbeing team, student union, or a dedicated harassment support officer. Many universities also offer disability advisors or equality & diversity teams who can advocate for adjustments or protection where necessary. You deserve to feel protected, understood, and heard, not just by friends, but by staff who are trained to help in exactly these situations.
You also mentioned that you have people who are on your side, which is really important, even if it’s just a few, keep leaning into that support. Having someone to walk to lectures with, talk things through, or just sit beside in a club or class can make a big difference.
And when it comes to your fears about another incident happening, you don’t have to face it alone. You can request things like safe return plans, pastoral check-ins, or changes in groupings or timetables if needed. Your safety and mental wellbeing should always come first.
Above all, you’ve done nothing wrong. No characteristic or identity you hold justifies mistreatment, ever. Going into final year is stressful enough, it should be a time when you get to focus on your achievements and goals, not just on surviving social hostility. Keep speaking up, keep reaching out, and please don’t carry this alone. Things can get better with the right support systems in place, and you deserve to finish your degree with dignity and peace.
Good luck
Arslan – University of Salford Student Representative