Hi there,
Living on your own can sometimes feel like everyone else has already found their groups—but don’t worry, that’s rarely the case! There are plenty of ways to meet people and get involved.
Start with Your Lectures
Even if it seems like everyone already knows each other, most people are still open to meeting new friends. A simple, “Hi, I’m [Your Name]—do you mind if I join you?” can go a long way. If someone says they’re saving a seat, that’s fine—try another group nearby.
Lectures are a great place to start since you already share an interest. Ask about the course, their hobbies, or societies they’re thinking of joining. You could suggest grabbing a coffee or lunch after class, or even starting a group chat to stay connected. Setting up a study group in the library for tricky assignments or group projects can also be a great way to make friends (bonus points if you bring snacks!)
Join Some Societies
It might sound cliché, but joining societies really does help you meet people with similar interests. There’s usually a huge range to choose from, and many have Instagram pages where you can check out events, meet-up times, and how much commitment is involved. Try attending a few taster sessions to see what you enjoy—whether you prefer something casual or more regular, there’s likely something that fits your schedule. And if not, you can always start your own!
Try Part-Time Work or Volunteering
Part-time jobs and volunteering are great for building experience and meeting new people. Even if you’re already committed to a part-time job, your uni careers service will likely advertise one-off projects or less regular work, giving you the chance to meet new people without overloading your schedule. Balancing different roles can help you meet people across a range of groups.
Get Involved Outside of Uni
Some of the closest friendships I’ve formed didn’t come from university classes—they came from activities outside university, such as open mic nights, pub quizzes and local groups. Don’t underestimate the social opportunities outside of campus!
Living in a studio doesn’t mean you’ll miss out. It might take a bit of confidence and initiative, but most people are just waiting for someone to make that first move.
Hope that helps 🙂
Megan (LJMU Rep)