Hi all.
I am a student who was deferred after a successful remark, meaning I met my offer but there wasn't enough space in my course to begin in 2025. I've received an email from Durham where they are offering me my preferred college for 2026 which is pretty cool. I'm now trying to make the decision of which college to choose, with my main choices being between Castle, St Chad's, St Mary's and St John's. I've been told that the Bailey colleges & Castle have a better location and traditions (gowned formals, events, etc) and that these are the best colleges to attend.
One of my main worries is the possibility of shared rooms in first year, especially at Castle, Chad’s and John’s, I’d strongly prefer to have my own room if possible which wouldn't be an issue at St Mary's. I'm just wondering if the risk of a shared room is worth the better formals, events etc. I’ve also heard that Castle because of its larger size can feel a little less tight-knit compared to smaller colleges like Chad’s or John’s, and I’m wondering how true that feels in practice.
If any current students who have experience with these colleges could offer some advice or insiders it would be greatly appreciated. I'm currently leaning towards choosing Castle so if there's anything I should know then please let me know!
Thanks.