Is anyone else struggling at university?

Socially it's so hard to make friends, I know everyone says give it time and get to know people, but groups are already forming and it's only intensifying how lonely I already am.

Hi,
What you’re feeling is completely valid and more common than you might think. The start of university can be overwhelming, especially when it seems like everyone has already formed their groups. In reality, many students are still finding their place and feeling the same way. It takes time to settle in and build those genuine connections.
Getting involved, even in small ways, can really help. Try joining a society or club that interests you. It doesn’t have to be related to your course. These spaces make it easier to meet people naturally while doing something you enjoy. You may also find study groups helpful, as they provide a comfortable way to connect with classmates and support each other academically.
Keep an eye out for university events, socials, and volunteering opportunities. Going along on your own or with one person can still lead to meeting others. Often, friendships form when you least expect them.
It can also make a big difference to start small conversations after lectures, during breaks, or while waiting for seminars to begin. A simple “how did you find that lecture?” or “are you heading to the next class?” can be a great way to start one off. Sometimes the best connections start with small, everyday interactions.
Wishing you all the best,
Tayba
Student Rep

I've been to mixers and everything, I've really tried, but I feel like no one is receptive to me. I live in a pretty isolated accomodation as well and my flatmates don't really come out that often so it makes me feel even worse, I honestly can't stomach how people are making friends and why I'm not, it really is upsetting me.

I’m really sorry to hear that. It’s tough when you’re putting yourself out there and it feels like nothing is working. I can understand how much harder it must feel living somewhere isolated with flatmates who aren’t around much, as it can make the loneliness feel even stronger. Sometimes, even just having a small chat with your flatmates can help create some connection and make the space feel a little less isolating.
It’s okay to feel down about it, but please remember this isn’t a reflection on you. Some people take longer to find their group, and meaningful friendships often come from unexpected places.
If these feelings are weighing on you, speaking to a wellbeing advisor at your university can help you process them. I really hope you’re able to find your people soon, I can assure you it does get better.

I honestly just want to drop out, I got into the uni because of mitigating circumstances and my grades are different from everyone else's so I feel even more out of place and unworthy of being here