How to make a girl like you?

Hiii

So I’ve got a girl bsf and we vibe like no one else can. We’re legit the same people, have a shared playlist, everything. Everything I do I share with her and everything she does she shares with me.

But it’s obvious she doesn’t like me in a romantic way

Is there a way to change that?

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

Original post

by 80408

Hiii
So I’ve got a girl bsf and we vibe like no one else can. We’re legit the same people, have a shared playlist, everything. Everything I do I share with her and everything she does she shares with me.
But it’s obvious she doesn’t like me in a romantic way
Is there a way to change that?

You can’t make anyone like you, really. In fact, i’ve only ever found success when I stopped caring to make anyone like me. Then it just happens if it works, and if it doesn’t, it doesn’t. If it’s really that obvious she doesn’t like you romantically, don’t force a romantic relationship. I don’t know the situation, you, or her, so maybe in time her mind will change, but not if you press the matter.

Reply 2

Kathy89

Short answer, NO.
Long answer, it may come with time. Later in life she may value your friendship more and more and eventually you could settle together. Don't count on it, you'd probably get over her and will want to be just best friends. Crashes like these are common.