Hi, I am a third year student from the UK currently doing a year abroad in Japan. I have been here a month I don't think I can do anymore. I have this magic inability to make friends and it's getting to me. I am trying to speak to people but I don't think I mesh with anyone. It is the same at my home uni, I am not really friends with anyone in my class or at least they don't consider me their friend. I go days here without talking to anyone, I witnessed today a bunch of classmates exchange instas and make a group chat and exclude me.
Anyway, it's all just very isolating and the time difference doesn't help. I wake up and my family are asleep, and then my boyfriend wakes up late so by that time I'm already in bed and going back to sleep again. I am just really struggling.
I already spoke to my uni, I sent them an email, and they said I can return home and complete my final year back at my home uni next year as planned. I am seriously considering it, but I am wondering if anyone was in the same boat on their year abroad and stuck around. How was it? Did it get better?. I do love this country and think its beautiful but I don't think I can do this whole year alone.