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Can a Lesbian say a Male looks cute. No I do not want to kiss him etc I am asexual anyway but aesthetically can I think a guy looks cute. I came out a while ago and like when talking to my gay friend (mlm) and he says this guy is hot for example (Chris Hemsworth) I a lesbian reply yeah he’s cute as that’s my opinion but I’m romantically attracted to woman only is that wrong cause my so called friend had a go at me saying oh maybe your bi then if you think he’s cute. Like….

Reply 1

Of course you can find a man cute it’s like what my friend said “I’m allowed to look at the menu I just can’t order from it”

Reply 2

From this and your other thread you seem to be overly concerned with fitting into a particular box and being consistent with certain labels. All that matters is that you are who you are. As it happens, the labels you brought up in your other thread (Lesbian and Asexual) are entirely compatible, and it is also entirely consistent for a lesbian to say that a guy is cute. I'm a heterosexual man but I comment that men are attractive from time to time. So there's nothing inconsistent in any of this, but even if there technically was, it's not something that should ever bother you. You do you.

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