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Uhhhh help?

So theres this one boy I have in gym class and math class. He’s a freshman I’m a sophomore we went to the same middle school but I didn’t even know he existed back then and we never talked till one day in gym class when he fell and I asked if he was ok. Then in math class he asked for my socials and I was like yea sure ever since then we sat close and talked a bit. But for some reason in math class he always wants me to touch the back of his neck while he puts his head down he says it’s a comfort thing. And recently he’s started flirting a bit like teasing me about my height and poking me. And today he wanted to play ball in gym class and I said no because my friend didn’t want me to so instead of playing he sat with me and my friends the whole time he playfully kicks me and randomly pokes me. But uhm what do I do help😭

Reply 1

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by ilovekuromi
So theres this one boy I have in gym class and math class. He’s a freshman I’m a sophomore we went to the same middle school but I didn’t even know he existed back then and we never talked till one day in gym class when he fell and I asked if he was ok. Then in math class he asked for my socials and I was like yea sure ever since then we sat close and talked a bit. But for some reason in math class he always wants me to touch the back of his neck while he puts his head down he says it’s a comfort thing. And recently he’s started flirting a bit like teasing me about my height and poking me. And today he wanted to play ball in gym class and I said no because my friend didn’t want me to so instead of playing he sat with me and my friends the whole time he playfully kicks me and randomly pokes me. But uhm what do I do help😭
Go for it lady! He is into you.

Reply 2

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by Pgavaza
Go for it lady! He is into you.

I’m not allowed to date atm because of my grades

Reply 3

Kiss him

Reply 4

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by SonicNChemistry
Kiss him

This is horrible timing considering he just saed me

Reply 5

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by ilovekuromi
This is horrible timing considering he just saed me

Sorry i thought you liked him

Reply 6

Just get with him already

Reply 7

He’s a freshman I’m a sophomore

This is British website so those terms are actually meaningless.

Reply 8

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by Maddie girl
Just get with him already

😧😧😧😧😧😧

Reply 9

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by McGinger
He’s a freshman I’m a sophomore
This is British website so those terms are actually meaningless.
Year 9 year 10

Reply 10

I think everyone in this thread is misunderstanding. If you don't feel comfortable then make sure to define your boundaries for yourself and for him. And considering you said he sa'ed you then that is a serious problem, which should be elevated. It's alright to be friends and be playful, but if you don't feel comfortable then that's the problem. Please tell an adult if it is serious.

Reply 11

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by vchang
I think everyone in this thread is misunderstanding. If you don't feel comfortable then make sure to define your boundaries for yourself and for him. And considering you said he sa'ed you then that is a serious problem, which should be elevated. It's alright to be friends and be playful, but if you don't feel comfortable then that's the problem. Please tell an adult if it is serious.

I told him to back off and now he’s ignoring me and it’s actually making me so sad

Reply 12

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by ilovekuromi
I told him to back off and now he’s ignoring me and it’s actually making me so sad
Maybe you could apologise for coming off as harsh, make amends but also you really need to make it clear what your own boundaries are. This hopefully makes it clear and prevents something like that from happening. I'm sure he'll be happy to listen. Hope this helps :biggrin:

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