Leading two guys on

My boyfriend broke up with me right before my birthday. We was arguing that whole month over dumb things. Things that should have never turnt into an argument. He ended up breaking up with me for literally no reason. I was calling him afterwards but he jsut seemed like he didn’t wanna be together. So probably a couple of days later, I had this guy on Instagram that kept on texting me so I decided to give him a chance. We would be texting and having phone calls and it felt great. I felt like myself when we would communicate on the phone. It’s a feeling that’s hard to explain. After I stopped giving my ex attention then he comes out of nowhere telling me he miss me and he didn’t wanna break up and how he loves and how he ain’t been talking to know one and now I’m in a situation where I feel like I’m leading on two guys. I don’t know which one to pick and it’s literally stressing me.

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by Anonymous

My boyfriend broke up with me right before my birthday. We was arguing that whole month over dumb things. Things that should have never turnt into an argument. He ended up breaking up with me for literally no reason. I was calling him afterwards but he jsut seemed like he didn’t wanna be together. So probably a couple of days later, I had this guy on Instagram that kept on texting me so I decided to give him a chance. We would be texting and having phone calls and it felt great. I felt like myself when we would communicate on the phone. It’s a feeling that’s hard to explain. After I stopped giving my ex attention then he comes out of nowhere telling me he miss me and he didn’t wanna break up and how he loves and how he ain’t been talking to know one and now I’m in a situation where I feel like I’m leading on two guys. I don’t know which one to pick and it’s literally stressing me.

I would pick the one that hasn't been throwing a fit over literally nothing also right before your birthday.
I don;'t think he's the right one for you honestly

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username7800779

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by Anonymous

My boyfriend broke up with me right before my birthday. We was arguing that whole month over dumb things. Things that should have never turnt into an argument. He ended up breaking up with me for literally no reason. I was calling him afterwards but he jsut seemed like he didn’t wanna be together. So probably a couple of days later, I had this guy on Instagram that kept on texting me so I decided to give him a chance. We would be texting and having phone calls and it felt great. I felt like myself when we would communicate on the phone. It’s a feeling that’s hard to explain. After I stopped giving my ex attention then he comes out of nowhere telling me he miss me and he didn’t wanna break up and how he loves and how he ain’t been talking to know one and now I’m in a situation where I feel like I’m leading on two guys. I don’t know which one to pick and it’s literally stressing me.

it sounds like your ex is just trying to remain in control even tho your over. move on from him have some fun.

Reply 3

StriderHort

21

You say you broke up for literally no reason, but you'd been arguing for a solid month? for most people that would be enough to walk away as it sounds pretty miserable.and signals a lot of issues underneath.

Reply 4

Zarek

21

I would go with the new guy. It was going wrong with your ex and he didn’t treat you well. You have an opportunity to get your own back, restore your self esteem and quite likely have a better relationship. Alternatively, knock both on the head and start afresh

Reply 5

Maddie girl

3

Don't go back with your ex

Reply 6

Adz2042

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Original post

by Anonymous

My boyfriend broke up with me right before my birthday. We was arguing that whole month over dumb things. Things that should have never turnt into an argument. He ended up breaking up with me for literally no reason. I was calling him afterwards but he jsut seemed like he didn’t wanna be together. So probably a couple of days later, I had this guy on Instagram that kept on texting me so I decided to give him a chance. We would be texting and having phone calls and it felt great. I felt like myself when we would communicate on the phone. It’s a feeling that’s hard to explain. After I stopped giving my ex attention then he comes out of nowhere telling me he miss me and he didn’t wanna break up and how he loves and how he ain’t been talking to know one and now I’m in a situation where I feel like I’m leading on two guys. I don’t know which one to pick and it’s literally stressing me.

Pick the new guy. You said it yourself, you were having arguments over dumb things for months with the ex. It'll likely go back to that, and that's unhealthy for you both.

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