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I hate my physics teacher

Hi everyone,
I’m a Year 13 student studying physics, and I’ve been having serious issues with my teacher lately. I’m not the type of person who complains easily, but this has been bothering me for months and it’s really starting to affect my motivation and mental state.

At the end of last year, before our Physics Paper 3 exam, I asked my teacher how many marks I needed for an A*. They told me 67%, and I even double-checked to be sure. Later, during an end-of-year event, the teacher told me it was actually 77%, which I found really unfair and inconsistent.

At the beginning of this academic year, I asked for an A* predicted grade, and they kindly gave it to me. But since then, whenever I asked questions in class even jokingly they would threaten to lower my prediction. It made me so anxious that I stopped asking questions altogether, because I didn’t want to make them angry or risk losing my grade.

Over the past few weeks, things have only gotten worse. The teacher seems constantly irritated in lessons, and I find it almost impossible to focus or enjoy the subject anymore. A couple of weeks ago, we were given a 40-question worksheet to complete in one day. When a few of us didn’t manage to finish, we were told to complete it by the next class. I did half of it (20 questions), which I thought was still reasonable, but the teacher reacted very harshly and again mentioned lowering predictions.

During a practical experiment the same week, I was the only student who drew the required graph it was written clearly on the instruction sheet but instead of acknowledging that, the teacher said I shouldn’t have drawn it and even accused me of copying my data from someone else, without checking my notebook.

The following week, we had a test that the teacher said would determine our predicted grades. The test didn’t include a single calculation question, even though the topic was Electric Field, which obviously involves a lot of calculations. When we got our results back, almost everyone received A*s, while I got a C. I checked my paper and noticed several correct answers hadn’t been given any marks. When I pointed this out, the teacher reluctantly added only two points still nowhere near what was fair.

I’ve also noticed that this teacher treats me differently from others, though I’m not sure why. It might not be intentional, but it definitely feels personal sometimes.

I actually spoke with a few members of staff about this before, but nothing has really changed if anything, things have gotten worse. Some of my classmates agree that this teacher can be unreasonable, but most of them either don’t care enough to say anything or are afraid to get involved.

To be honest, this situation has completely drained me. I’ve lost motivation for physics, my confidence has dropped, and I’m genuinely stressed about my predicted grade. I want to handle this properly, but I’m scared that if I speak up more directly, it’ll just make things worse.

What should I do? Should I go higher up and talk to someone else? Or just try to survive until the end of the year?

Reply 1

Original post
by TahgondiM
Hi everyone,
I’m a Year 13 student studying physics, and I’ve been having serious issues with my teacher lately. I’m not the type of person who complains easily, but this has been bothering me for months and it’s really starting to affect my motivation and mental state.
At the end of last year, before our Physics Paper 3 exam, I asked my teacher how many marks I needed for an A*. They told me 67%, and I even double-checked to be sure. Later, during an end-of-year event, the teacher told me it was actually 77%, which I found really unfair and inconsistent.
At the beginning of this academic year, I asked for an A* predicted grade, and they kindly gave it to me. But since then, whenever I asked questions in class even jokingly they would threaten to lower my prediction. It made me so anxious that I stopped asking questions altogether, because I didn’t want to make them angry or risk losing my grade.
Over the past few weeks, things have only gotten worse. The teacher seems constantly irritated in lessons, and I find it almost impossible to focus or enjoy the subject anymore. A couple of weeks ago, we were given a 40-question worksheet to complete in one day. When a few of us didn’t manage to finish, we were told to complete it by the next class. I did half of it (20 questions), which I thought was still reasonable, but the teacher reacted very harshly and again mentioned lowering predictions.
During a practical experiment the same week, I was the only student who drew the required graph it was written clearly on the instruction sheet but instead of acknowledging that, the teacher said I shouldn’t have drawn it and even accused me of copying my data from someone else, without checking my notebook.
The following week, we had a test that the teacher said would determine our predicted grades. The test didn’t include a single calculation question, even though the topic was Electric Field, which obviously involves a lot of calculations. When we got our results back, almost everyone received A*s, while I got a C. I checked my paper and noticed several correct answers hadn’t been given any marks. When I pointed this out, the teacher reluctantly added only two points still nowhere near what was fair.
I’ve also noticed that this teacher treats me differently from others, though I’m not sure why. It might not be intentional, but it definitely feels personal sometimes.
I actually spoke with a few members of staff about this before, but nothing has really changed if anything, things have gotten worse. Some of my classmates agree that this teacher can be unreasonable, but most of them either don’t care enough to say anything or are afraid to get involved.
To be honest, this situation has completely drained me. I’ve lost motivation for physics, my confidence has dropped, and I’m genuinely stressed about my predicted grade. I want to handle this properly, but I’m scared that if I speak up more directly, it’ll just make things worse.
What should I do? Should I go higher up and talk to someone else? Or just try to survive until the end of the year?
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It sounds very stressful. This is an important year for you. What you describe is not normal school pressure. Your feelings are justified.
I would like to offer you some advice as follows:
You have already spoken to the staff. Nothing has changed. Now, you need to speak to the senior management at the school. This is not "complaining". You are defending your rights. You are being treated unfairly. This is having an impact on your studies and your well-being.
Here is my advice:
-Keep a record of everything.
-Request a formal meeting. Speak to your head of department or tutor, if any.
-Ask for specific measures to be taken.
-Take care of your mental health.
In conclusion:
-You are not overreacting.
-You should not be threatened with low marks for asking questions.
-You should not make mistakes in your assessments.
-You should not make accusations without evidence.
-You have the right to resolve your issue properly.

Ciao,
Sandro
(edited 5 months ago)

Reply 2

Original post
by Nitrotoluene
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It sounds very stressful. This is an important year for you. What you describe is not normal school pressure. Your feelings are justified.
I would like to offer you some advice as follows:
You have already spoken to the staff. Nothing has changed. Now, you need to speak to the senior management at the school. This is not "complaining". You are defending your rights. You are being treated unfairly. This is having an impact on your studies and your well-being.
Here is my advice:
-Keep a record of everything.
-Request a formal meeting. Speak to your head of department or tutor, if any.
-Ask for specific measures to be taken.
-Take care of your mental health.
In conclusion:
-You are not overreacting.
-You should not be threatened with low marks for asking questions.
-You should not make mistakes in your assessments.
-You should not make accusations without evidence.
-You have the right to resolve this issue properly.
Ciao,
Sandro


Hey there, thank you so much for your advice and empathy.
I can’t express enough how grateful i am for reading that whole thing and writing a comment.

I will surely address the problem to a higher authority.

Reply 3

Original post
by TahgondiM
Hi everyone,
I’m a Year 13 student studying physics, and I’ve been having serious issues with my teacher lately. I’m not the type of person who complains easily, but this has been bothering me for months and it’s really starting to affect my motivation and mental state.
At the end of last year, before our Physics Paper 3 exam, I asked my teacher how many marks I needed for an A*. They told me 67%, and I even double-checked to be sure. Later, during an end-of-year event, the teacher told me it was actually 77%, which I found really unfair and inconsistent.
At the beginning of this academic year, I asked for an A* predicted grade, and they kindly gave it to me. But since then, whenever I asked questions in class even jokingly they would threaten to lower my prediction. It made me so anxious that I stopped asking questions altogether, because I didn’t want to make them angry or risk losing my grade.
Over the past few weeks, things have only gotten worse. The teacher seems constantly irritated in lessons, and I find it almost impossible to focus or enjoy the subject anymore. A couple of weeks ago, we were given a 40-question worksheet to complete in one day. When a few of us didn’t manage to finish, we were told to complete it by the next class. I did half of it (20 questions), which I thought was still reasonable, but the teacher reacted very harshly and again mentioned lowering predictions.
During a practical experiment the same week, I was the only student who drew the required graph it was written clearly on the instruction sheet but instead of acknowledging that, the teacher said I shouldn’t have drawn it and even accused me of copying my data from someone else, without checking my notebook.
The following week, we had a test that the teacher said would determine our predicted grades. The test didn’t include a single calculation question, even though the topic was Electric Field, which obviously involves a lot of calculations. When we got our results back, almost everyone received A*s, while I got a C. I checked my paper and noticed several correct answers hadn’t been given any marks. When I pointed this out, the teacher reluctantly added only two points still nowhere near what was fair.
I’ve also noticed that this teacher treats me differently from others, though I’m not sure why. It might not be intentional, but it definitely feels personal sometimes.
I actually spoke with a few members of staff about this before, but nothing has really changed if anything, things have gotten worse. Some of my classmates agree that this teacher can be unreasonable, but most of them either don’t care enough to say anything or are afraid to get involved.
To be honest, this situation has completely drained me. I’ve lost motivation for physics, my confidence has dropped, and I’m genuinely stressed about my predicted grade. I want to handle this properly, but I’m scared that if I speak up more directly, it’ll just make things worse.
What should I do? Should I go higher up and talk to someone else? Or just try to survive until the end of the year?


I had the same thing with my sixth form biology teacher. It felt so good to rub the A* in her face on results day after she refused to predict me one. To be honest I found having a person to complain to (my mum) really helped me and validated my feelings. Just think it’s one year. Maybe try to find her behaviour funny because it’s so ridiculously unfair.

Reply 4

Original post
by Nitrotoluene
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It sounds very stressful. This is an important year for you. What you describe is not normal school pressure. Your feelings are justified.
I would like to offer you some advice as follows:
You have already spoken to the staff. Nothing has changed. Now, you need to speak to the senior management at the school. This is not "complaining". You are defending your rights. You are being treated unfairly. This is having an impact on your studies and your well-being.
Here is my advice:
-Keep a record of everything.
-Request a formal meeting. Speak to your head of department or tutor, if any.
-Ask for specific measures to be taken.
-Take care of your mental health.
In conclusion:
-You are not overreacting.
-You should not be threatened with low marks for asking questions.
-You should not make mistakes in your assessments.
-You should not make accusations without evidence.
-You have the right to resolve your issue properly.
Ciao,
Sandro


Ur so tuff ngl

Reply 5

Original post
by nini09
Ur so tuff ngl
I wasn't really harsh, I was just being objective in giving advice.
Ciao,
Sandro

Reply 6

Original post
by Nitrotoluene
I wasn't really harsh, I was just being objective in giving advice.
Ciao,
Sandro


No. Tuff = cool, I said that because it was a very well articulated point.

Reply 7

Original post
by nini09
No. Tuff = cool, I said that because it was a very well articulated point.
I appreciate your elucidation.

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