I am female and have it. Like you I have alopecia universalis - no body hair at all. I have had it since I was 2 and a half, the doctors blamed it on stress but how stressed can a 2 year old be? It has never grown again and the doctors have tried everything. I am currently 18 and at university, only my housemates for next year know about it as I was bullied when I was younger. I am scared to have relationships as my last bf broke up with me because of it but you may like to know that 1 in 20 people have some form of alopecia and I know how you feel wanting to be anonymous. Do you wear a wig??