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Pregnant by my old teaching assistant help
I was seeing my old teaching assistant until the end of summer when I discovered he was already married, now I found out I am pregnant, I've messaged him but he told me to stop contacting him and being desperate thinking that I am lying? Anyone got any advice abortion is not an option for me
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by AnonymousI was seeing my old teaching assistant until the end of summer when I discovered he was already married, now I found out I am pregnant, I've messaged him but he told me to stop contacting him and being desperate thinking that I am lying? Anyone got any advice abortion is not an option for me
How old are you? You should go to local police station. They will do the rest for you without breaking your confidentiality.
Reply 2
I would speak to trusted individual. GP/ health professional at your local sexual health drop in centre. Or someone you can trust. There are measures in place to support you going forward.
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by Samudra2050How old are you? You should go to local police station. They will do the rest for you without breaking your confidentiality.
Police don't deal with pregnancies for you.
Reply 4
8 weeks since this?
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7620670
Life comes at you fast.
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7620670
Life comes at you fast.
Reply 5
And the 4 week update in case anyone missed it.
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7624382
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7624382
Reply 6
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by Admit-OneAnd the 4 week update in case anyone missed it.
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7624382
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7624382
Ah wait it's that again 😅
Reply 7
His wife will find out now about what he's done
Reply 8
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Maybe ask him if he'd like to come with you when you have your first scan.... or would he just like you to send copies of the scans. You need to put the sh*ts up him!
Reply 9
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by Admit-OneAnd the 4 week update in case anyone missed it.
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7624382
https://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7624382
😅😭
Reply 10
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by AnonymousI was seeing my old teaching assistant until the end of summer when I discovered he was already married, now I found out I am pregnant, I've messaged him but he told me to stop contacting him and being desperate thinking that I am lying? Anyone got any advice abortion is not an option for me
Speak to a trusted individual like a GP at a local sexual health centre
And well if you want to be a bit more savage.... go and tell his wife! I don't recommend this but just in case he keeps acting like an irresponsible father..
(edited 1 week ago)
Reply 11
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by StriderHortPolice don't deal with pregnancies for you.
Did not know the person was a 19 year old... thought it was a safeguarding issue
Reply 12
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by nutz99Maybe ask him if he'd like to come with you when you have your first scan.... or would he just like you to send copies of the scans. You need to put the sh*ts up him!
I asked him and he told me he wants nothing to do with it when I told him I wasnt lying he still thinks I am
Reply 13
Why are you even associating with him in the first place?
Reply 14
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by AnonymousI asked him and he told me he wants nothing to do with it when I told him I wasnt lying he still thinks I am
threaten to tell his wife and see what he says
Reply 15
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The community did tell you not to contact him in the first place. You asked this forum if it was wrong, didn't take the advice, contacted him anyway, met up, thought there was a spark between you, slept together, now you're convinced he's the dad but no DNA test to prove it, and we're back to giving you advice.
Looking forward to the next update in 3 months time.
Looking forward to the next update in 3 months time.
Reply 16
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by helloimdavidWhy are you even associating with him in the first place?
Because I thought he was good looking
Reply 17
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by Adz2042The community did tell you not to contact him in the first place. You asked this forum if it was wrong, didn't take the advice, contacted him anyway, met up, thought there was a spark between you, slept together, now you're convinced he's the dad but no DNA test to prove it, and we're back to giving you advice.
Looking forward to the next update in 3 months time.
Looking forward to the next update in 3 months time.
Well i haven't slept with anyone else for several months so he is the dad
Reply 18
Is there any particular clear logical reason as to why abortion is not an option?
If there is, then what this teaching assistant wants and what he gets will be 2 very different things!
Because, as a bare minimum he will have some financial responsibility for his child, whether he likes it or not. Because that's the law.
If there is, then what this teaching assistant wants and what he gets will be 2 very different things!
Because, as a bare minimum he will have some financial responsibility for his child, whether he likes it or not. Because that's the law.
Reply 19
Assuming this is not a troll post, as OP was over the age of majority at the time this is really more of a case of their own bad decisions affecting them.
In which case they need to take responsibility for that and make a decision on how to proceed, whether to keep it or not and assess how either option will affect them and fit into their plans.
Like yes it's definitely pretty skeevy for a TA to start dating his 19 year old former student for sure, but there's nothing illegal about it if the relationship only began after they were over 18 and at a certain point the OP has some responsibility here too. And adultery is not illegal as far as I'm aware...
In which case they need to take responsibility for that and make a decision on how to proceed, whether to keep it or not and assess how either option will affect them and fit into their plans.
Like yes it's definitely pretty skeevy for a TA to start dating his 19 year old former student for sure, but there's nothing illegal about it if the relationship only began after they were over 18 and at a certain point the OP has some responsibility here too. And adultery is not illegal as far as I'm aware...
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