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Why are boys so confusing

So I kinda like this one boy he’s cute and we hug hold hands and we are just extremely touchy and then many many weeks later after I got to know him I just asked out of curiosity do you like me? He said no like WDYM NO I don’t understand boys

Reply 1

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by Anonymous
So I kinda like this one boy he’s cute and we hug hold hands and we are just extremely touchy and then many many weeks later after I got to know him I just asked out of curiosity do you like me? He said no like WDYM NO I don’t understand boys

And how does that make us confusing? If someone doesn’t like you then they just don't feel the same for you the way you do for them. Peak times but we accept it and move on.

Reply 2

Ask him.

The problem isnt guys, its communication on both sides.

How old are you both?

You asked him, he said no. So you need to find out what the cuddly hand-holding is all about. The only way is to ask.

I suspect that he just wants physical intimacy but without the emotional trappings.

He may well see you as a intimate friend who he can act all lovey with. Be specific with him re what you want. If that isnt what he wants you havr two choices: accept and continue anyway, accept and move on. None acceptance will lead to your misery if its painful.

DL
(edited 2 weeks ago)

Reply 3

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by Mohammed_2000
And how does that make us confusing? If someone doesn’t like you then they just don't feel the same for you the way you do for them. Peak times but we accept it and move on.

Yea but when I mentioned to him about seeing someone he got extremely jealous and mad

Reply 4

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by Anonymous
Yea but when I mentioned to him about seeing someone he got extremely jealous and mad

If that's the case he's indenial.

Reply 5

He probably does like you but panicked when you asked him. He didn't want to say yes and for you to not like him back and for him to get embarrassed.

Reply 6

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by pigeonlover12
He probably does like you but panicked when you asked him. He didn't want to say yes and for you to not like him back and for him to get embarrassed.

That’s probably it because I asked why he got jealous and he hasn’t replied kinda excited to see him at school tomorrow

Reply 7

I agree. Think he likes you and panicked in the moment. If you can, tell him how you feel. If he still says no, try and move on girly, it's not worth the pain

Reply 8

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by Anonymous
Because your recessed and ugly

What😭

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