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I've never been to a party 16M, advice?

As the title suggests, I've never been to a party.

My school has a very *****y social life and my core friend group are just extroverts who don't touch grass. Genuinely, I'm super focused on building a personal brand and a portfolio as well as a resume but I fear that it may have led me to become a bit socially inept when it comes to partying and dating too.

I've been asked out a few times too but tbh I just never click with anyone - and for those who I do, I usually just end up becoming their best friend after getting the friendzone treatment.

Low-key how do I improve guys

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As the title suggests, I've never been to a party.
My school has a very *****y social life and my core friend group are just extroverts who don't touch grass. Genuinely, I'm super focused on building a personal brand and a portfolio as well as a resume but I fear that it may have led me to become a bit socially inept when it comes to partying and dating too.
I've been asked out a few times too but tbh I just never click with anyone - and for those who I do, I usually just end up becoming their best friend after getting the friendzone treatment.
Low-key how do I improve guys


Not partying isn’t a bad thing. It’s actually a good thing as it allows you to focus on what is most important e.g. family, education. It’s just people getting wasted and falling down staircases like my friend did. If you plan on going to uni then that’s the best time to party.

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