My family moved with me for uni. We moved around a bit before and switched homes/cities several times when my dad wanted it, so I would say it's not that untypical but ofc he did it for me and wasn't specifically interested in this one city where my uni is.
I don't have a driving license so he drives me around because he is a bit worried about me taking the bus with racism etc. I've took the bus before when he couldn't drop me off and I've been fine but it's a 45 min journey taking two buses instead of a 15 minutes drive so it's very tedious after a full day of lectures. I am taking lessons with my dad to pass my driving license ( he can't afford to pay lessons and I had some money that went towards uni fees) + I am applying for a job now, wish me luck
Ofc I am not in a bad position, my mom takes take care of most of the cooking/chores although I do help out on weekends, but that's something she would've done anyway, me being here or not. However, I feel like there is a need for control in all these behaviours. My dad told me repeatedly through different things he said that he doesn't trust me.
He will make comments when I go to societies events, asking why I was so late, what I was doing, and if that stuff is compulsory and why I am I going if it isn't. A lot of events will end later some, 6-7, 7-8 and some even stretching till 10pm and I know I'll never be able to go to those because he wouldn't accept it. I feel like I am being treated like a child that goes to school and he already is being generous with the evening stuff but I shouldn't cross a line. I don't really know how to deal with this because I am my own person and everyone around me can do whatever they want and I don't. I also feel like everyone around me is becoming more independent and I am not which feels kinda **** especially if you feel judged by others.