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How to make Muslim sister friends Manchester

Hi, I'm a 22 years old Muslim girl... I want to make new friends as I don't have any to guide me on my Deen and stuff ...

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by Anonymous
Hi, I'm a 22 years old Muslim girl... I want to make new friends as I don't have any to guide me on my Deen and stuff ...
A good place to start is by getting involved in your local masjid or Islamic centre, as they often have study groups or social events where you can meet others. You could also look for Islamic events or conferences, which can provide opportunities to connect with like-minded individuals who share your faith.
Online communities, like forums or social media groups, can also be a way to meet people, especially if there aren’t many opportunities locally. Volunteering for community projects or charity work can help you build relationships while also growing in your faith. It might take some time, but insha'Allah you’ll find the support and guidance you’re looking for.

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by Anonymous
Hi, I'm a 22 years old Muslim girl... I want to make new friends as I don't have any to guide me on my Deen and stuff ...

It's great that you want to connect with other Muslim girls your age who can support you in your Deen. Building that sisterhood is so important for spiritual growth and finding guidance. It can definitely be challenging to find your people, but there are many avenues to explore.

Here are some practical suggestions you can try:

1. Start at Your Local Masjid/Islamic Center
The mosque is the heart of the community. Look beyond just the prayer times.

Attend events: Check their schedule for social gatherings, community dinners, or special events (like Ramadan iftars or Eid celebrations).

Join women's groups or Halaqas (study circles): Many mosques have dedicated groups or classes for young women that focus on Quranic studies, Hadith, or general Islamic topics. This is a great way to meet people who are also seeking to grow their faith.

Volunteer: Offering your time for community service projects or helping with events is a natural way to work alongside like-minded sisters and build connections.

2. Utilize University Muslim Student Associations (MSAs)
Since you mentioned you're in university, the MSA is an excellent resource, even if you are not currently a student there.

Attend their events: MSAs often host lectures, social nights, and study sessions that attract young Muslims around your age.

Reach out: You can contact the MSA board and ask about women-specific groups or mentorship programs.

3. Explore Online Communities and Apps
Digital platforms can help you find local groups or connect with people online.

Social Media: Look for Facebook groups specific to Muslim women in your city or region.

Apps: Apps like Salams have a feature specifically for finding friends, not just marriage partners. You can also use general platforms like Meetup.com and search for Muslim gatherings or Islamic book clubs.

4. Be Proactive and Patient
Making friends as an adult takes effort.

Be approachable: A simple "Salaam" can be a great conversation starter at the mosque or an event.

Initiate plans: If you click with someone, don't be afraid to suggest meeting for coffee, a meal at a halal restaurant, or studying together.

Make Du'a (prayer): In your prayers, ask Allah (SWT) to guide you to righteous and supportive companions who will help you grow in your faith.

Finding the right group takes time, but by actively seeking out spaces where Muslims gather and are focused on their faith, you increase your chances of finding that supportive sisterhood you are looking for.

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