How strict are Durham and Bristol with contextual offers/ how hard is it to receive one?
I’ve received places from Newcastle and Royal Holloway, but only Royal Holloway gave me a contextual offer (I think, idek), but I really really don’t want to go to Royal Holloway, it’s so far from home and It was so stupid of me to only pick that as my only genuine backup option, I think I’d genuinely have a breakdown if I was that far from home, I’m literally terrified even thinking about it.
I really want to go to Durham, it seems perfect for me, or Newcastle. The only issue is that I’m such a basic candidate at the moment:
• A*AA predicted grades
• LNAT score - unknown, but I think I confidently answered about 7-12 questions, and there were only 1-2 I literally didn’t grasp at all. I have such a dreadful feeling about it, but I’ve been told everyone feels that way, which for some reason I don’t buy. Did quite well on the essay I think.
• decent personal statement from what my law tutor told me, she was quite impressed by all the extra things I do outside of college, and going into detail about my fathers own injustice which angered me as a child basically and made me want to become a lawyer
• such average GCSE’s that it’s embarrassing - 4 for Maths, 5 for English.
In my personal statement I mention: being a young carer, facing injustice in my family which actually really affected my childhood as we lost everything and ended up in poverty. Then I talked about how I set up charity events in my local area, my job experience, how I made my own girls football team and coached it when I was 14, how I play for Blackpool FC, talked about books I’ve been reading surrounding law, talked about online courses I’ve been going for law on open university, podcasts I listen to on the law, how my art made me reflect on the law too which my tutor said was a good unique bit, how I was house caption and a prefect in secondary, how I lead campaigns in my school and helped kids struggling socially, how I speak multiple languages, and how I have a TikTok page that helps simplify the law with 13k followers.
I also don’t think I’m going to get my predicted grade of A*AA in my actual a levels, everything is so stressful at the moment my head literally feels like it’s about to explode - I come out of a lesson half the time and I just have no idea what I even learnt. I’m so confused, I was so organised and confident I’d get good grades before summer, and all of a sudden after applying to university, the pressure has come and I’ve lost enjoyment of actually just learning the subjects for myself, because now it literally relies on my future - I’ll be stuck at a university all the way on the other side of the country if I don’t get good grades. I genuinely can’t do that, I’ve got my grandma who fell ill just after I’d sent my uni application off and she’s so important to me I just want to be at least a little close. I have my little sister who suddenly started hinting after I’d applied that she doesn’t want me to go away, which tbh I didn’t think she’d be like that because she’s not clingy or anything. I’ve got my dog at home, and I genuinely feel anxiety after being away from her for two weeks when I’m on holiday or something. I’ve got my father who is also 75 and I obviously want to spend time with him with his age. My whole life is here, and I don’t think I’ll be able to stand not being able to come back at least every 3-4 weeks to keep them all close, which I know I won’t be able to do all the way down on the other side of the country because it costs about £90 on a train ticket down there, and 3 1/2 hour journey, it wouldn’t be as practical as a £10 1 1/2 hour journey from Durham.
My contextual offer would come from the fact:
I’m a young carer
I have free school meals
I go to an underperforming college
Neither of my parents went to university or even like… got GCSE’s lmao
And I thought I was in a polar4 area, which I should be as this place is a complete sh!thole, and I’ve been told by tutors it qualifies for contextual offers, but I searched it using that address thing and it said it isn’t.
If anyone has any idea surrounding how hard it is to get a contextual offer from Durham, especially in my situation. And also how rubbish does my application sound with my average GCSE score, bare minimum grade requirements, unknown LNAT but feeling like I did bad for some reason, and my personal statement. Tysm
