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Confused

Hi

I would like some answers if possible

Why is it, whenever my Fiancé is high hes so nice to me, loveable, caring, close, funny, cheeky but when hes sober hes nasty? And like to cause arguments with me, or he will bring up certain arguments that we have had before even though we already have discussed our problems and carried on forgive and forget, but he will go back on everything and throw it all in my face?

To be honest im so used to his behaviour that I just carry on lgnore him and just basically let him argue with himself!

Reply 1

Dunnig Kruger

Why? It's because he's a complete and utter... (insert extreme industrial language here)!

Get out of there now!
The 2 of you are not compatible in how you resolve conflict. Because he will pick, pick, pick, nag, nag nag away at you. And he's far too argumentative.
It's a romantic relationship you're supposed to be having! Not constant Prime Minister's Question Time!

He's supposed to treat you better than he would a complete stranger. He is instead treating you worse. I bet he doesn't go around picking arguments with complete strangers!

Marriage to him would be a nightmare.
Imagine what a terrible father he'd be. He'd be going on and on about some mistake your children made when they were 3, even when they're 15.

For all the men reading this, this is a prime example of how easy it is to be the best boyfriend that many women have ever had. All you have to do is to NOT be a complete... (back to the extremely foul language again)!

Reply 2

ibelieve-icanfly

Please don't marry this guy
The only reason he's like that high is because he can't think straight, and when he can he's constantly picking at you and that is NOT a good sign, because he won't change. He'll continue to be an ass and eventually send you into mental decline so please save yourself the torment and leave this guy you can do so much better