Muslim Brothers and Sisters

Salaam. I send my dua to yourself and our ummah may allah the almighty, all merciful and powerful keep you in the strongest of health and imaan. I wanted your advice please if I do not want to marry the girl of my culture yet my mother is insistent that I do what I do. In this current moment in time marrying the girl of my culture is not an option, neither will it be due to trust issues and previous experiences of failed approaches of asking for their hand to marriage which ultimately lead to time being wasted and played with. Although I would happily marry a girl outside of my culture. Though my mother is not in acceptance of it what do I do?

Jazakallah Khair and Shukriya for your advice.

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Anonymous #2

walaykum mussalam. try explain to your mother all that you said above, and how you truly think that marrying someone else, outsde of your culture as you said, would be better. Inshallah it will all work out for the better.

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Anonymous #1

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by Anonymous

Salaam I have tried to explain this to her yet she keeps insisting on me marrying a girl within my culture. Although I don’t want to because I have no trust within them, I personally think they waste time and I don’t think my mother would approve, give her blessings to me getting married outside of my culture even though I’d like to.