Having a hard time making friends at college

Really random i am in year 12 but i feel like it is really hard for me to make friends at college, i have seen most of my school friends have new friends. Even in college there are already many friend groups formed and it makes me feel very lonely as i was looking forward to making new friendships. I do initiate conversations but its hard for me to connect with people. Anyone with similar experience

I feel that. I’m homeschooled now, but while I was still in secondary, I tried my best to sort of initiate conversations or just connect. For others, connection seemed to come to them naturally. But I feel like any attempt I made was just awkward for everyone. I still attend like some programmes for a level students, and even then I can’t seem to fit into any of the groups, it’s like everyone’s already like found their friend group and…yh it sucks. I understand how u r feeling

I feel that. I’m homeschooled now, but while I was still in secondary, I tried my best to sort of initiate conversations or just connect. For others, connection seemed to come to them naturally. But I feel like any attempt I made was just awkward for everyone. I still attend like some programmes for a level students, and even then I can’t seem to fit into any of the groups, it’s like everyone’s already like found their friend group and…yh it sucks. I understand how u r feeling

Exactly i feel like i am too awkward too ☹️ i genuinely dont even know how people can just connect with people and click instantly it feels a bit better to know that i am not the only one i hope it gets better in the future for us ❤️*🩹

I’m in the same situation atm. I’m also in year 12 and want to make new friends. I was lonely in year 11 and hoped this will change in year 12, but the same thing just happened again. In year 11 i tell myself things will get better next year, but now in year 12 i tell myself things will get better in uni. I feel like i can never escape this cycle. I might have some friends at school, but I don’t think they value me as much as I value them. They have other friends as well so my existence probably doesn’t really matter to them.
Recently they’ve been going out a lot without me and I am completely disappointed. Whenever I see them hanging out online, I am completely disappointed. They only hang out with me when their friends are not there. They never invite me to hang out but at the same time they hang out a lot without me.
When I say them, I mean a group of around 4 ppl. I think im a bit closer with 2 of them but not the other 2. One of the 2 I’m a bit closer with is friends with another person and she invites her to hang out with the 4 of them but not me.
It’s extremely sad when they exclude me every time and I’ve been crying about it. I don’t hang out with ppl outside school bc I basically have no friends.
Sry for the long post…

Really random i am in year 12 but i feel like it is really hard for me to make friends at college, i have seen most of my school friends have new friends. Even in college there are already many friend groups formed and it makes me feel very lonely as i was looking forward to making new friendships. I do initiate conversations but its hard for me to connect with people. Anyone with similar experience

Really random i am in year 12 but i feel like it is really hard for me to make friends at college, i have seen most of my school friends have new friends. Even in college there are already many friend groups formed and it makes me feel very lonely as i was looking forward to making new friendships. I do initiate conversations but its hard for me to connect with people. Anyone with similar experience